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    Explore why the most important relationship is the one with yourself and learn evidence-based strategies to navigate conflict, sustain intimacy, and build a resilient partnership that lasts.

    The Science of Self and Lasting Connection

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    The relationship we have with ourselves sets the thermostat for the relationship we have with others. If I’m at peace with my own flaws, I can handle it when my partner points one out without feeling like my whole world is collapsing.

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