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The Courage to Be Disliked: The Japanese Phenomenon That Shows You How to Change Your Life and Achieve Real Happiness
Ichiro Kishimi
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The sequel to a million-copy bestseller, "The Courage to Be Happy" presents Adlerian psychology through captivating Socratic dialogue. Silicon Valley titan Marc Andreessen calls it "compelling from front to back" - a philosophical conversation that transforms your mental framework like "Marie Kondo, but for your brain."

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Key Themes in The Courage to Be Disliked

adlerian psychologyteleological perspectiveseparation of tasksinterpersonal harmonysubjective reality

Quotes from The Courage to Be Disliked

No, we are not determined by our experiences, but instead, we determine ourselves by giving meaning to our experiences.

People are not driven by past causes but move toward goals that they themselves set.

Do not live to satisfy the expectations of others.

The courage to be happy also includes the courage to be disliked.

If you are not living for yourself, then who is going to live for you?

Characters in The Courage to Be Disliked

The philosopherAn expert in Adlerian psychology and dialogue lead
The youthA skeptical student who challenges the philosopher
Alfred AdlerPsychologist whose radical ideas form the book
Ichiro KishimiThe author of the book
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