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Patrick King

Patrick King is a bestselling author and social skills coach specializing in communication, social interaction, and personal development. He has written over 40 books, including "Read People Like a Book," dominating categories on Amazon in business, self-help, health, and dating. His practical guides have impacted readers globally seeking confidence and relationship success.

Biography & Author's Journey

Patrick King’s journey to becoming an influential voice in social dynamics and communication is both unconventional and marked by deliberate transformation. Born into an Asian American family with a strong emphasis on discipline and self-reliance, King initially pursued law, graduating from law school and practicing for a number of years. However, a mounting sense of dissatisfaction led him to pivot drastically from his legal career, propelling him toward a new path centered on helping others master the art of human connection.

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If you're completely honest with yourself, the only reason you would insult someone or use other corrosive forms of sarcastic humor is to make yourself feel good. You take some degree of joy in making others feel poorly, partially because it makes you feel as if you’re better than they are. That's pretty sad. Oftentimes, even if you're trying to pass an insult off as a joke, you are sending a loud and clear signal to the other person that you can't be trusted and that you have a low view of them. What do you think the overall effect of this perception will have on people who would otherwise want to be your friend?
-Be Remarkable: How to Live Better, Be Happier, and Become Your Best Self - 19 Ways To Live With Importance
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Asking people for their advice or opinion is one of the best ways you can build instant rapport and become likeable in the eyes of many people
-Top 10 Patrick King Quotes
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For instance, it tends to be easier for us to picture how frequently eating a load of greasy fast food meals is going to risk our heart health, but it’s harder for us to recognize how not exercising can place us at the same health risk. While we may actively avoid those oily take-out in an attempt to maintain a healthy lifestyle, we aren’t as likely to start an exercise regimen to support that same goal. It just doesn’t have the same psychological impact
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If you go to a networking event with the idea of seeking a job, that’s an expectation that will creep into all of your conversations, whether you realize it or not. You’re going to subconsciously nudge your interactions into specific directions that will probably disrupt the natural flow of how they would otherwise go – to your detriment. If you speak to that same person and just seek to connect, chances are a very different connection will form
-Top 10 Patrick King Quotes
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You need to accept responsibility for your interpersonal interactions. That is the first step toward improving them
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Listening is extremely difficult. When we converse with others, it's easy to get wrapped up in anything but what the other person is saying
-How To Listen With Intention

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Community Voices

"Patrick King is a Social Interaction Specialist and bestselling author who has been featured in national publications such as Inc.com, GQ Magazine, TedX, Forbes, NBC News, Huffington Post, Business Insider, Men's Fitness, and Real Simple Magazine"

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"Patrick King is a top five author in Business and Money, top 10 in Health, Fitness, and Dating, and top 100 in other categories such as Self Help"

Open World Magazine

"Patrick King has self-published more than 25 books and counting in just over one year, dominating the charts in multiple categories as a best-selling author"

Open World Magazine

"Patrick King is a #1 Amazon best-selling dating and relationships author with the most popular online dating book on the market"

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"Patrick King is earning royalty checks from Amazon of $14,000+ per month and is at the top of numerous categories on Amazon as a best-selling author"

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