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John Townsend

John Townsend is an American psychologist, leadership consultant, and Christian self-help author focused on relationships, personal boundaries, emotional health, and leadership. Best known for coauthoring the Boundaries series with Henry Cloud, he has written more than 30 books, with reported sales of about 10 million copies.

Biography & Author's Journey

John Townsend built his career at the intersection of psychology, theology, and leadership. He earned a B.A. in psychology from North Carolina State University, a master’s in theology from Dallas Theological Seminary, and a Ph.D. in clinical psychology from Biola University’s Rosemead School. A decisive turning point came while he was a seminary student preparing for missionary work in Africa: participation in a growth group convinced him that trust, vulnerability, and strong relationships could alter the course of a life. He then moved more fully toward counseling and organizational work, later helping lead a healthcare organization with operations in 35 cities across the western United States. ((https://www.cui.edu/townsend/about/townsend))

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Quotes

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Self-judgment is an attack on the self by the self
-Challenging Self-Judgment
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Successful people believe in themselves
-Believe In Yourself
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Calendars exist to serve us
-Calendar as Servant, Not Master
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Leadership is an influence
-Leading a Family
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Vulnerability is absolutely risky. And absolutely necessary
-Vulnerability: Absolutely Risky. And Absolutely Necessary
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Don’t treat them like a child, treat them like an adult
-Adult Children: Relating to Them in the Best Way
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Patience is simply the act of mentally making friends with time
-Patience is a Better Friend than a Foe
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I define passion as “focused desire.”
-Passion

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Setting Boundaries with people

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Master Life, Business & Human Behavior
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"In Loving People, Dr. John Townsend explores the important role love plays in personal growth and relationships"

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"In Beyond Boundaries, John Townsend offers a rich guide on what it looks like to trust again and this time to do it better"

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"John Townsend is a psychologist, relational expert, business consultant, and leadership coach"

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"John Townsend is the New York Times bestselling author of Boundaries and People Fuel"

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