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Gerald G. May

Born: June 12, 1940 – Hillsdale, Michigan, United States

Gerald G. May was an American psychiatrist, theologian, and spiritual writer whose work explored addiction, grace, contemplative prayer, and discernment. Best known for Addiction and Grace and The Awakened Heart, he helped bridge psychology and Christian spirituality, and his books became enduring resources in spiritual direction and pastoral care.

Biography & Author's Journey

Gerald G. May was an American psychiatrist, theologian, and spiritual writer whose career joined clinical practice to contemplative Christianity. Born in Hillsdale, Michigan, on June 12, 1940, he was the half-brother of the existential psychologist Rollo May. He graduated from Ohio Wesleyan University in 1962 and earned his M.D. from Wayne State University in 1965. Early posts in Air Force hospitals and at Andrews Air Force Base, followed by work in addiction treatment, prison mental health, and medical teaching, exposed him to dependence, suffering, and the limits of purely technical care. ((https://www.washingtonpost.com/archive/local/2005/04/13/jerry-may/2eb46c5b-ef15-49f5-b79b-31c794224eb8/?utm_source=openai))

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I thought I understood discernment, but what I had really done was substitute intermittent contact and willful activity for abiding intimacy and trust
-God Only Knows
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Appreciation of silence does not come with the same ease and readiness to all people
-Will and Spirit
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Love is open, allowing our hearts to be touched and moved by what exists
-The Awakened Heart
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Before we can effectively heal the wounds we have inflicted upon the rest of Nature, we must allow ourselves to be healed
-The Wisdom of Wilderness
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Real prayer requires at least an attempt to leave such mental struggles and allow our attention to sink deeply, simply, and nakedly into the heart
-Heart, Mind & Prayer
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I have found nothing more disruptive to my availability to God than my own arrogant attempts to figure out God’s will
-Letting God Lead
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No matter what we do or how we feel, God continues to accept and love us, unconditionally and without exception
-On the Love of God
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The spiritual life is a movement of love and light, and there is no success and no failure here
-Seeking The One Who Has Already Found Us

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Community Voices

"Gerald May finds a language for his soul in his experiences of nature and the poetry of John of the Cross"

John Welch

"Gerald May was a psychiatrist whose work with chemically addicted people convinced him... every human is addicted"

Christianity Today

"Jerry May was a great soul who teaches us to be present in the world and to notice things in their mystery"

Alan Jones

"A gifted and insightful writer, Gerald May's book uses the same title... to place it in a modern setting"

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"As the humble, lucid, earthy spiritual master that he is, Jerry May shares with us the guiding, healing spiritual power"

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