A structured plan to heal from the unique pain of anxious-avoidant breakups. Learn why these relationships create emotional quicksand and get practical tools to break free from rumination, rebuild your identity, and create lasting recovery in just 60 days.
Best quote from Anxious-Avoidant Breakup: 60-Day Recovery Roadmap
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Healing from an anxious-avoidant breakup isn't just about getting over someone—it's about getting back to yourself. You're not just grieving the loss of love, you're going through withdrawal from a neurochemical cocktail that your brain became addicted to.
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Input question
I am anxious and I was broken up with someone with an avoidant attachment. I need a plan for the next 2 months
Host voices
Lena
Miles
Knowledge sources
From Columbia University alumni built in San Francisco
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