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The Joy Revolution: How Leadership Can Transform Work and Life
In a world where 85% of employees feel disengaged at work, Richard Sheridan offers a radical alternative. His book "Chief Joy Officer" isn't just another leadership manual-it's a manifesto for workplace transformation that has captured attention from Fortune 500 executives to Silicon Valley innovators. Since its publication, this work has become required reading at companies like Zappos and has been praised by leadership experts including Simon Sinek, who called it "a roadmap for creating workplaces where people thrive." What makes Sheridan's approach revolutionary is its counterintuitive premise: that joy-not fear, not efficiency, not even profit-should be the primary organizing principle of business. Drawing from his experience transforming his software company Menlo Innovations into what Forbes called "the most joyful workplace in America," Sheridan demonstrates how authentic leadership can create environments where people bring their whole selves to work and achieve remarkable results. The book's impact extends beyond business circles-it has sparked conversations about the purpose of work itself in an age where burnout and disillusionment have reached epidemic proportions.
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Breaking the Cycle of Fear-Based Leadership
The journey toward joyful leadership begins with confronting an uncomfortable truth: most workplaces operate on fear. This manifests in countless ways-requiring approval for every decision, micromanaging talented people, creating endless processes to prevent mistakes, and fostering environments where people wear masks to hide their true selves. I experienced this firsthand during my years at Interface Systems, where despite promotions and increasing responsibility, I found myself burning out. I'd play FreeCell during work hours, take longer routes to delay arriving at the office, and feel a growing disconnect between my work and my values.
Our culture at Interface favored rushing unfinished products to market and dealing with inevitable quality problems later-what we sarcastically called "just smushing it." We spent 30% of our time fixing problems, which wasn't nearly enough. Our technical "heroes" couldn't take vacations without being on call, and team members fought through code rather than communication. When offered a promotion to VP of R&D in 1997, I initially refused, but then accepted on one condition: that I could build "the best damn software team Ann Arbor had ever seen."
This moment became the catalyst for a fundamental shift in my approach to leadership. I realized there had to be a different way-one based not on heroes and fear, but on elegance, purpose, and joy. I needed to create an environment where people could work with pride by replacing the traditional fear-based model with one allowing teams to bring their whole selves to work. This better model would support a collegial, productive environment where innovation and imagination would foster practical inventions serving customers.
What I sought wasn't mere happiness, which is fleeting, but something deeper and more meaningful. You can be joyful even when work is difficult and challenging. My ambitious dream was implementing this joyful approach in software design, an industry notorious for "death marches" and buggy products. This meant letting go of most of what I'd learned about management and changing my beliefs about my team. But it meant getting back to my own dreams of what I thought possible, my truest self, and my personal definition of joy.
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Authenticity: Removing the Mask
Authenticity begins with confronting the mask we wear to work every day and recognizing how it differs from our true inner self. During a Lunch and Learn at Menlo, a nonprofit called Ele's Place shared their work helping grieving families, including an exercise where teens decorated masks-writing positive emotions on the outside ("I'm fine," "Happy") while revealing their true feelings inside ("Lonely," "Scared," "Hurting"). This powerful metaphor applies to leadership too, where we present confidence outwardly while hiding vulnerability.
Authenticity isn't about displaying every emotion but sharing enough of our true selves that we don't live a lie at work. Many people become different personas at work versus home, often compartmentalizing personal struggles to appear as the "perfect employee." This creates a toxic culture where careers advance for those who seem universally available, with personal lives "locked in the trunk." At Menlo, we embrace the whole person, allowing team members to share personal challenges and even welcoming newborns in the workplace.
Our most powerful human fear may be abandonment-feeling cut off from others in a dangerous world. This primal fear affects workplace dynamics where isolation can threaten career survival. At Menlo, we believe relationships can only be built by spending time together. While many organizations use team-building events, our best relationship-building approach is simply working together. We maintain an in-person company culture with daily standup meetings including everyone, pair programming where two people work on each task (rotating pairs weekly), and "High-Speed Voice Technology" (face-to-face conversation) instead of electronic communication.
Most people focus on their flaws rather than strengths when examining themselves. The University of Michigan's "Reflected Best Self Exercise" offers a solution: ask trusted colleagues and friends to write stories about when you were at your best. Looking for patterns in these stories helps create a "best-self portrait"-a powerful tool for understanding your authentic strengths as a leader. The exercise produces such moving feedback that tissues are recommended when reading the responses.
Authenticity isn't a permanent state but something we must continually work toward. Rather than focusing solely on deficiencies, understanding our authentic superpowers helps us build upon what truly works for us. This is just the beginning of a more challenging leadership journey ahead.
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The Power of Humility and Love in Leadership
Humility doesn't mean being a doormat-it means considering others first. I learned this lesson when Tracy confronted me about my poor interaction with Matt, a newer team member. When Matt had honestly said "I don't know" about a technical question, I'd responded harshly, contradicting our own cultural value that "It's OK to Say I Don't Know." The next morning, I apologized, and Matt's immediate, sincere response-"I forgive you"-taught me more about humility than I'd taught him.
True humility acknowledges all work as noble, puts others first without expectation of reward, and recognizes everyone as human beings first, not objects or means to an end. Shel Silverstein's The Giving Tree demonstrates this unconditional love and humility-continually giving pieces of oneself to someone less patient and experienced, eventually becoming just a stump for sitting, all with joy. This selfless approach contradicts typical workplace dynamics where competence determines standing.
If there's one core tenet upon which I'd build my leadership life, it's this: love wins every time. Not fear, intimidation, bullying, or intellectual superiority-only love works if you want true engagement and self-directed teams. In leadership, love means the absence of cruelty, meanness, harshness, impatience, and vindictiveness. Like First Corinthians teaches, "Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud."
Our greatest impulse as managers is expediency for efficiency, often creating an us-versus-them mindset. But moments of impatience can have lifetime effects, as I learned when my mother once criticized my penmanship in fourth grade-I haven't written in cursive since. Leaders' dismissive or cruel words, spoken hastily, may leave permanent marks. Kindness may be the most valuable currency a leader has-not looking the other way, but caring deeply. This might mean tough conversations or even firing someone. Rick, whom I fired decades ago, later thanked me for the kind but firm coaching that changed his life.
Despite growing up rich in love but modest in material wealth, I envied others' possessions and status. This envy peaked in my career as I coveted the nicer cars, homes, and titles of those above me. When I finally became Senior VP with stock options worth millions during the internet bubble, I was miserable-unable to sleep amid the politics and ruthlessness. Then it all disappeared when the bubble burst. Now I live in the same humble home, sleep well at night, and no longer envy lavish lifestyles.
At Menlo, "I" is a culturally dangerous word. Our work is done in pairs that rotate weekly, making it nearly impossible to claim individual credit. We care little about individual performance when it comes at the team's expense. That's why we made our profit-sharing bonuses equal dollar amounts for everyone-acknowledging that success comes from countless contributions across the organization.
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Optimism as a Leadership Choice
2015 ended as Menlo's best year in our fourteen-year history-record revenues, profits, profit sharing, cash reserves, and successful projects. Then 2016 arrived, and everything stopped suddenly. Projects ended without new ones replacing them. Potential clients inquired but didn't commit. The market was gripped by fear-China slowing down, Brexit threatening the EU, Fed uncertainty about interest rates, violence in America, a divisive presidential election, and volatile oil prices.
Every leadership moment presents a crucial choice: how will we respond? Will we imagine the worst outcome or the best? Optimism isn't about sunshine and rainbows-it's about believing in two possibilities: that people around you have good intent, and that if things don't go as expected, you've created conditions to make other choices. Edward de Bono's "Six Thinking Hats" includes the Yellow Hat of optimism that considers success as a serious possibility, which can energize an entire team when balanced with the Black Hat's cautious engineering mindset.
Executives from major companies like GE, Ford, Toyota, and Coca-Cola visit Menlo to witness our different way of working. When they ask what simple thing they could do as leaders to make a difference, I tell them: "Move out of your office and turn it into a conference room." Most respond with nervous laughter, but Ron Sail of GE Global Services actually did it. He gave up his office, tore down walls, moved into the open with his team, and adopted other Menlo practices. His transformation reinvented an employee services unit at GE and inspired others throughout the company.
Begin pursuing joy with optimism by trying something new in your daily routine. I ran a 10K at age sixty without proper training. Though I had to walk part of it, I outran everyone who didn't show up that morning. The experience gave me new goals: run farther before walking, complete the whole race, try a half-marathon next. Stop contemplating and start moving with the optimism that you can accomplish something great.
Optimism and enthusiasm aren't the same-optimism requires courage. It's scary to choose optimism because you risk failing to meet expectations. As Rollo May said, "The opposite of courage is not cowardice, but conformity." At MassMutual, my simple advice to "run the experiment" transformed their culture in just six months. When I returned, I found helium balloons marking the desks of staff who'd run experiments. One employee, Erica, had reduced simple life insurance claim processing from four weeks to just thirteen minutes.
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Creating a Vision That Inspires
A leader's vision must be both deeply personal and widely shared. It simplifies decision-making and reminds us what truly matters. For a vision to inspire followers, it must contain joy for others-a hollow, selfish vision will only generate motion, not emotion. At Menlo, our vision connects to our mission of "ending human suffering related to technology" by creating joyful experiences both externally (for customers) and internally (for our team).
But vision without process leads to chaos, while process without culture yields soul-crushing bureaucracy. The visioning process should be inclusive, not just the domain of executives. We regularly invited team members to contribute to our 2027 vision, asking what they appreciate about Menlo and hope for its future. To keep our vision alive, we've integrated elements into our weekly meetings so everyone understands how our metrics connect to our activities.
Visioning isn't just for CEOs-anyone can create a vision for change at Menlo. These visions don't need to be as elaborate as our ten-year plan and can have shorter timeframes. In 2017, Lisa H., one of our project managers, drafted a vision for our monthly newsletter, Menlo Bits. Though we fell short of every target she set for subscriber growth and engagement by January 2018, the vision still inspired significant improvements across all metrics.
This demonstrates how visions can drive positive change even when the specific goals aren't fully achieved. Lisa's vision was selfless, with no "I" language, which invited followership. As Stan Slap noted in his book "Bury My Heart at Conference Room B," when we tap into individuals' hearts, we get the best they have to offer. Lisa looked outside to dream about improving the newsletter, looked inside to ensure sustainability, and searched her own heart to find joy in building better relationships with readers.
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Grounded Leadership: Balancing Dreams with Reality
I love mornings in Ann Arbor, arriving at work by 6:30 a.m. when the town is still sleeping. I personally flip on all the lights at Menlo, clean dishes, and brew coffee. While I could delegate these tasks, performing them keeps me grounded in the practical realities that make a business run. These necessary tasks may not be glamorous, but they're essential, and as CEO, I believe in staying connected to these fundamental aspects of our operation.
Ryan Sullivan, founder of A2 Functional Fitness (and my son-in-law), created the role of "Cultural Custodian" in his business plan. This role, assigned to the founder or CEO, involves managing everything from schedules and maintenance to the organization's culture. The Cultural Custodian serves the community rather than directing it, even handling facility cleaning. If you only speak about culture occasionally but don't live it intentionally in daily actions, the culture you seek will never take hold.
Optimism is vital but insufficient without acknowledging business realities. Running out of cash means death; ignoring customers means market decline. Despite sixteen years in business, Menlo remains small, which sometimes troubles me. When 2016 brought challenges after 2015's growth, we implemented Open Book Management, sharing all financial data with every employee. This transparency came at a perfect time-we needed everyone's help.
One of my earliest lessons in harnessing fear came as a sixteen-year-old boating on Lake Huron with my friend Doug. When east winds suddenly whipped the lake into a frenzy, we had to navigate carefully back to port. I could see the gas gauge needle hitting empty repeatedly, but when Doug asked about our fuel situation, I confidently replied we had plenty. I didn't actually know if it was true, but I knew increasing his fear wouldn't help our situation. We made it back safely on fumes. This taught me that leaders must balance reality with optimism.
In our early days at our 2,000 square foot storefront, my former boss Bob Nero visited as a potential client and asked a crucial question: "How will you fit our project in your tiny storefront?" We lost the business but gained something more valuable-an honest assessment that we needed to grow to be competitive. When I approached our CFO Bob Simms about tripling our space with a six-year lease, we reached an impasse. I insisted "We have to do this" while he countered "Grow the business first, then we'll afford it."
This illustrated the Competing Values Framework: I was in the Green "Imagine" quadrant valuing innovation regardless of cost, while Bob was in the Red "Control" quadrant watching expenses carefully. We resolved this by securing a modest loan from Ann Arbor SPARK to cover the initial difference in lease expense, which we repaid within a year. Where there's productive tension between competing values, there's progress.
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Servant Leadership: Finding Joy in Service
In the summer of 1968, as a ten-year-old, I surprised my parents by assembling a massive bookshelf and moving it from the garage to the living room while they were out. When they returned to find it perfectly set up with knickknacks and music playing, my mom cried with joy. For years I thought my joy in business came from discovering programming in 1971, but I realized the true source was serving others with the work of my heart, hands, and mind.
The biggest challenge in leadership is defining success correctly. Teams work extraordinarily hard when focused on something worthy and bigger than themselves. When visitors ask where to start their leadership journey, I suggest defining what kind of joy their team wishes to deliver to the world by asking: "Whom do you serve?" The answer isn't just customers, employees, or investors-that's still self-serving. To find lasting joy, we must look beyond these stakeholders to those we may never meet, like insurance beneficiaries who need compassion during their time of loss.
Many dismiss servant leadership as impossible in their organization because they're "too big, small, young, old, regulated," etc. They believe they'll get to it once they achieve profitability, start their own business, or retire. I disagree completely. Even at McDonald's in Detroit Metro Airport, I witnessed remarkable servant leadership from Mike, an older man who not only diligently cleaned but offered napkins and wished travelers safe flights. When Mike left, a younger worker continued this same exceptional service. This wasn't coincidence-their manager explained they operated in a competitive environment where kindness created customer loyalty.
True leadership isn't about smart decisions but teaching others to lead and building organizations that thrive without you. Leaders must put ego aside to create successors who surpass them. Beyond defining joyful service for our teams, we must teach them to find joy in their daily work. At Menlo, team members Anna and Kealy took a financial freedom course held in our space, then became instructors themselves to help others. This exemplifies the servant leadership we need-people taking time to serve others they may not even know.
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Building a Culture of Leadership
In 1997, as a newly promoted VP of R&D at Interface Systems, I brought my eight-year-old daughter Sarah to work. After spending the day coloring while I took calls, wrote reports, and met with colleagues, she surprised me by concluding, "You are really important." When I asked why, she explained, "No one here can make a decision without asking you first." I was mortified. I'd created a team that couldn't move faster than I could-a lose-lose-lose scenario.
Several threads converged to show me an alternative leadership path. After watching the IDEO video with my executive team, even my harshest critic enthusiastically asked "How soon do we tear down the walls?" Shortly after, I discovered Extreme Programming through an AppNet seminar, which advocated collaborative approaches like pair programming. Motivated to make radical changes, I created "The Java Factory" in an empty part of our printer factory where team members could work on new products using these collaborative methods.
While we built an intentional culture at Menlo Innovations, we didn't set out to create a bossless workplace or follow specific management methodologies like Holacracy or Lean. Our culture evolved organically guided by our clear purpose: "to end human suffering as it relates to technology" by bringing joy back to software invention. This purpose dictated everything we built. The practices we're now admired for-paper planning, weekly cycles, pair programming, open office plans-all evolved from simple experiments in pursuit of our intentional culture.
I cannot emphasize enough: Do not pursue process, plans, or practices without purpose. A purpose-driven culture takes time to build. You'll face setbacks and mockery until your approach becomes "obvious" to others. Remember you're doing it for the right reasons, and it will result in joy. Most people willingly work hard for something important, even if they can't explain how they did it-they know why they did it.
We've shifted from a muscle-based economy to a brain-based one, and now we're moving toward a mindset-based economy. As Carol Dweck explains, individuals possess either Growth or Fixed Mindsets. Organizations face the same divide-those that adapt quickly will thrive, while hierarchical, shareholder-first models will rapidly fail. A growth-mindset economy demands speed and distributed decision-making near the work itself. This requires flatter structures to remove delays and free smart workers from bureaucratic despair.
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Valuing Leaders Over Bosses
When the dot-com crash began in December 2000, I faced a devastating leadership challenge. The CTO of the company that had acquired Interface Systems told me to cut half my team-and I had just two hours to decide who would stay and who would go. After the holidays, HR divided my team into two groups-those being let go gathered in the cafeteria while others were led elsewhere. I joined those being terminated, witnessing their pain firsthand.
What happened next revealed the strength of the leadership culture we'd built: one team member being fired immediately took out a notepad and organized the group to support each other in finding new jobs. Even in despair, they demonstrated leadership and care for one another. That email group stayed active for almost a decade after that fateful day. I grew up a lot that day-my boss side shrunk; my leader side grew.
Bosses have the trump card of "Because I said so!" while leaders must influence without that hammer. True leaders respond to "Why?" with thoughtful conversation, recognizing that questions represent curiosity, fear, or potential contributions. These interactions are opportunities to grow new leaders, especially when someone musters the courage to bring forward an idea despite their vulnerability.
Bad leaders are self-serving, pretend to have authority they lack, export drama, and blame others when things go wrong. They create politicized organizations where distrust flourishes and good people avoid taking risks. Good leaders, conversely, are selfless without being martyrs. They pitch in where needed, see no work as beneath them, and comfortably let others lead. They address conflict directly without amplifying it and respond to subtle cues before problems escalate.
In a boss-fearing culture, people seek permission before trying new ideas, and when permission is frequently denied, innovation dies. In contrast, a leadership culture embraces mistakes as learning opportunities. The poster "Make Mistakes Faster" at Menlo captures this philosophy-recognizing that avoiding small mistakes often leads to bigger, costlier ones. Leaders expect mistakes, deal with problems collaboratively without blame, and run experiments to improve.
When asked "Who do people report to at Menlo?" team members struggled to answer because there was no org chart or formal hierarchy. Their responses ranged from "the process" to "the customers" before unanimously agreeing "we report to each other." The team makes hiring decisions through Extreme Interviewing, conducts peer performance reviews via Feedback Lunches, and shares firing decisions. This non-hierarchical approach wasn't deliberately planned but evolved naturally as the company grew.
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Creating Systems That Foster Leadership
The chapter opens with Richard's story about his pediatrician Dr. John Gall who ran an unusually orderly practice with no waiting room chaos. Years later, Richard discovered that Dr. Gall was actually a renowned systems thinker and author of "The Systems Bible." This revelation confirmed what Richard had suspected-the doctor's quiet, empty waiting room was intentional. Dr. Gall had designed precise systems for scheduling both routine and urgent appointments, creating order without chaos.
Organizations need to answer fundamental questions to be intentional about their culture: Why do we exist? Who do we serve? What would delight those we serve? What simple processes could systematically produce that delight? Most organizations have default cultures defined by who they hired, what behaviors they tolerate, what attitudes walked in the door, and what subtle signals indicate priorities. These personality-driven cultures can work until suddenly they don't, with no clear path back.
Leaders who create joyful environments are invariably systems thinkers, unlike those who build hero-based cultures with personality-driven approaches. When facing problems like missed deadlines or quality issues, leaders have three choices: see it as random bad luck, blame the people, or examine the systems. Systems thinkers always start by improving systems rather than blaming individuals.
Richard advises following Einstein's principle: "Everything should be made as simple as possible, but not simpler," or the agile version: "Do the simplest thing that could possibly work." Leaders should avoid analysis paralysis by implementing systems that seem simple enough, trusting they can adjust later if needed. This approach follows Gall's Law about starting with simple systems rather than trying to anticipate every edge case.
To combat the human tendency to assign blame, James established a simple system at Menlo: "If something goes wrong, blame me." This became a team mantra when Ted, during a difficult project, declared "It's James's fault. Now let's go solve the problem." This approach redirects energy from fault-finding to problem-solving. Similarly, the phrase "Rich is uncomfortable!" emerged as a humorous way to address inappropriate workplace behavior. These verbal cues function as simple systems that steer the team away from chaos.
Richard describes Menlo's quarterly meetings where team members submit challenging questions in advance, creating a safe space for honest conversation. During a difficult period in 2017, the team asked tough questions about business strategy, competition, financial challenges, and cultural changes. Richard emphasizes that while these questions might not sound joyful, the team's willingness to openly express concerns demonstrates their strength and trust.
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Caring for Your Team: The Foundation of Leadership
Menlo's approach to team care begins with their unique hiring process that looks beyond resumes to find people who collaborate well. Their Extreme Interviewing process involves group auditions where candidates work in pairs while being observed for kindergarten skills-how well they play with others. This inclusive process brings in diverse candidates from welders to PhDs, focusing on culture fit above technical skills.
Richard shares Scott K.'s story, a welder who taught himself programming and persisted through Menlo's interview process despite initial rejection. Though Scott struggled during his three-week trial with thinking out loud (essential for pair programming), the team gave him a second chance. When Scott asked for immediate feedback rather than end-of-day reviews, his pairing partner David M. obliged despite his own discomfort. This small adjustment helped Scott succeed and become a valued team member.
Menlo's caring culture is evident from the first interview, where candidates are instructed to "make your pair partner look good" and help competitors succeed-even while competing for the same position. After interviews, Menlonians gather for heartfelt discussions about each candidate, evaluating them against core values like collaboration and kindergarten skills.
Richard challenges the "A-player myth" prevalent in business, using Michael Jordan as an example. Despite Jordan's exceptional talent, the Chicago Bulls only started winning championships when coach Phil Jackson helped Jordan transition from individual hero to team leader. At Menlo, they cultivate team players with diverse backgrounds-from those without high school diplomas to PhDs in various fields. Their strength comes from working on challenges together, with leadership intervening minimally to allow team growth.
When people approach Richard about joining Menlo, they're often surprised to learn that he, as CEO and co-founder, has no say in hiring decisions. The team builds itself through their Extreme Interview process, with Richard only able to ensure candidates get an interview opportunity. This approach recognizes that team members will be collaborating closely for forty hours weekly, making their assessment more valid than his brief impression.
Brian's story exemplifies Menlo's principle of "taking a chance on people." Despite passing the culture fit test brilliantly, Brian struggled technically during his trial period. While traditional companies would have rejected him immediately, Menlo's team saw valuable qualities: calm maturity, humility as a learner, and focus on helping partners succeed. They extended his trial from three to eight weeks. In week seven, Brian demonstrated remarkable self-awareness by creating feedback forms for team members to help him improve regardless of the hiring decision. This vulnerability impressed everyone. The team ultimately hired Brian at a reduced entry-level salary, making a collective bet on his potential while committing to help him succeed.
