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Dolly Alderton

Born: August 31, 1988 – London, England, United Kingdom

Dolly Alderton is a British journalist, author, and screenwriter who writes about friendship, dating, heartbreak, and adulthood. Her memoir Everything I Know About Love won the 2018 National Book Award for Autobiography, spent 65 weeks on The New York Times bestseller list, and inspired a BBC adaptation; Ghosts and Good Material were also bestsellers.

Biography & Author's Journey

Raised in a London suburb, Dolly Alderton wanted to write from an early age, editing school and student publications and developing the mix of humor, confession and observation that would later define her work. At the University of Exeter she began in drama before switching to English, then completed a journalism master’s at City University London. Her route into a writing life was not immediate: after graduation she spent months doing unpaid magazine placements before a decisive break came when her online recaps of Made in Chelsea led Monkey Kingdom to hire her as a story producer. Work in television development, script assisting on Fresh Meat and directing online content for Fresh Meat and Peep Show gave her a practical education in structure, dialogue and character before she moved into full-time freelance writing in 2015. ((https://mediamasters.fm/files/wp-content/uploads/2018/06/media-masters_dolly-alderton-podcast-transcript.pdf))

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Nearly everything I know about love, I've learnt from my long-term friendships with women
-Everything I Know About Love
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We were the internet pioneers
-Dolly Alderton on being revealing in Everything I Know About Love
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I think there's something intimate about writing a letter to someone
-I wrote Nick Cave a letter asking him to fix my problems
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The key message over and over again is: be as quiet and small as possible
-Dolly Alderton Ghosts interview
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I'd like to be known now for what I do rather than who I am
-Dolly Alderton on fiction, friendships and life in your 30s
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I’ve always wanted to write something from the male perspective, to stretch myself as a novelist
-Dolly Alderton on heartbreak and writing the male psyche in Good Material
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I had a secret Mills & Boon habit in my teens
-Dolly Alderton: In an emergency, I turn to Bridget Jones
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Their lives before or after or beyond men are valuable and precious and important
-Dolly Alderton on Adapting Her Real-Life Love Stories for the Screen
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I don’t think anyone should be held to account for things they say before they’re 30!
-Dolly Alderton gets real about flirting, second dates and writing about exes
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I hate puritanism
-Dear Dolly

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