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Stan Tatkin

Дата рождения: November 04, 1954 – Los Angeles, California, United States

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Stan Tatkin is an American psychotherapist, researcher, and teacher specializing in couples therapy, attachment, and interpersonal neurobiology. He developed A Psychobiological Approach to Couple Therapy (PACT) and wrote Wired for Love, Wired for Dating, We Do, and In Each Other’s Care. Through the PACT Institute, he has trained clinicians internationally.

Биография и Путь Автора

Stan Tatkin built his career at the intersection of clinical psychology, attachment theory, and neuroscience. Educated in Southern California, he studied at Pepperdine University’s Malibu campus, earned a Bachelor of Liberal Arts with an emphasis in clinical psychology and then a master’s in clinical psychology from Antioch University Los Angeles, and completed a PsyD in clinical psychology at Ryokan College. Early in his career he worked extensively with adolescents and adults facing personality disorders and addiction, including clinical roles at the Bradshaw Center and Charter Hospital. The decisive turn in his professional life came when his interests moved from individual pathology toward the psychoneurobiology of intimate bonds, especially the ways early attachment patterns and arousal states shape adult romantic relationships. ((https://s3.amazonaws.com/kajabi-storefronts-production/sites/49347/themes/1992532/downloads/dqIwqCRjm8SwxgDszN4Q_Stan_Tatkin_CV_9.22.22.pdf))

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Цитаты

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The couple represents the smallest unit of a society; as such, it functions best by following principles of social justice
-We Do
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Thou shalt protect the safety and security of thy relationship at all costs
-The Ten Commandments for a Secure-Functioning Relationship
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We come to relationships basically feral, untrained, and barely parented
-Train Your Partner
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A secure-functioning person is like someone who stands on bedrock
-How Securely Do You Stand in Your Relationship?
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They protect each other in front of you, the therapist
-How Do You Know If a Couple Is Secure Functioning?
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The couple is the smallest unit of a social group
-Secure-Functioning Essentials: Taking Care of Yourself and Your Partner at the Same Time
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You have to consider your partner simultaneously, as you’re considering yourself
-In Each Other’s Care
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They have to be experts on each other
-Stan Tatkin on Psychobiological Couples Therapy
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The idea that I’m going to change my partner is naïve
-Stan Tatkin: I Vow to Take You On as My Burden

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Psychology of Attraction & Deep Intimacy
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Psychology of Attraction & Deep Intimacy

Modern dating and long-term partnerships often fail due to a lack of understanding of biological drivers and emotional blueprints. This plan is essential for individuals seeking to move beyond superficial connections by applying psychological research and proven relationship science to their personal lives.

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Neurochemistry of Love, Trauma & Bonding

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To obtain a career in love
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Psych, Sex Health & Behavior Science
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Psych, Sex Health & Behavior Science

This plan bridges the gap between cognitive science and interpersonal dynamics to provide a holistic view of human nature. It is ideal for individuals seeking to improve their relationships and decision-making through a scientific lens.

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"Getting to great in your relationship is much easier with guidance from the brilliant couples therapist, Stan Tatkin"

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"Stan Tatkin has succeeded in integrating attachment and neuroscience research as he takes us on a wonderful journey through dating, mating, and love"

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"Stan Tatkin is one of the world’s most brilliant couples therapists, making his classic, Wired for Love, essential"

Elise Loehnen

"Stan Tatkin is one of the most important voices in couple relationships today"

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