Exploring the complex truth behind why women appear more confrontational in relationships - from emotional labor to walkaway wives, we unpack what's really happening when conflict erupts.
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When you're the one constantly monitoring the health of the relationship, you're naturally going to be the first person to notice when something's wrong. It's like being the smoke detector but then being blamed for making noise when there's a fire.
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What’s this current story about women getting angry at their spouse or husband or boyfriend why does it seem for women are always trying to be preferentially difficult in relationships and they’re always trying to look at ways to start a fight or get revenge or leave the relationship or threaten to leave
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