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    Dating Smart: Fun Without the Obsession

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    16 de out. de 2025
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    Learn how to date intentionally in your twenties without making boys your whole world. Discover the art of exploring what you want in relationships while maintaining your independence and priorities.

    Dating Smart: Fun Without the Obsession

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    You're not trying to make every guy 'the one'—you're learning about yourself through interaction. Each date becomes data about what makes you feel valued and what values matter to you.

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    Generated by Leeah Williamson

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    A 10 min podcast about not prioritizing boys in my early 20s, but still being able to go on dates to see what I want in the future

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    Everything I Know about Love
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    The New Rules for Love, Sex, & Dating
    How to Date Casually Without Hurting Anyone
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    Opening & Welcome

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    Topic Introduction & Source Material Setup

    0:44
    1:00
    1:15
    1:29
    3

    The Art of Intentional Dating

    1:46
    1:58
    2:14
    2:29
    2:44
    4

    Building Your Social Muscles Without Losing Yourself

    2:54
    3:09
    3:21
    3:36
    3:52
    5

    The Power of Standards and Self-Knowledge

    4:04
    4:12
    4:28
    2:29
    4:58
    6

    Creating Connection Without Losing Independence

    5:13
    5:24
    5:39
    1:00
    6:09
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    Practical Applications & Listener Takeaways

    6:25
    6:31
    6:46
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    Wrap-up & Closing Reflection

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