Think steps ahead with a strategist's mindset
Most people react to the moment instead of planning for the long game. Learn how to use strategic patience and leverage to master the art of power.
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If you aren't playing the best move for your opponent in your own head, you aren't calculating—you’re just daydreaming. It’s the difference between being a 'loyal slave' to your first impulse and being the executive director of your own mind.
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I want to think like a Makaveli, world class, chess player, a few steps ahead of the game if you will
Frequently Asked Questions
The Socratic method in strategy involves a structured pursuit of truth through constant questioning of the "obvious" reality. Instead of accepting surface-level information—such as a friendly colleague or a standard job offer—a strategist asks what assumptions are being made and what the position is actually revealing. This approach moves away from following social scripts or memorized patterns and instead focuses on reasoning within the specific details of a situation to identify potential traps.
The "Candidate Moves" technique helps overcome "first move bias," where an individual settles on the first decent option they see. A world-class strategist scans the entire situation to identify three or four logical options before beginning deep calculations. By organizing these thoughts into a "menu" of possibilities and prioritizing "forcing moves" that limit an opponent's responses, a person can maintain executive control over their mind rather than reacting impulsively.
Strategic detachment is the ability to experience and suppress emotions strategically rather than being ruled by them. In high-stakes environments, this temperament allows a person to treat insults or praise as neutral data points rather than personal triggers. By exercising "inhibitory control," the brain's prefrontal cortex can reject flashy, immediate desires in favor of long-term goals. This "emotional coldness" ensures that a strategist remains the "calm center" of a room, making them an indispensable anchor when others are panicking.
"Poking the crocodile" refers to the "River Crossing" analogy used to test the safety of a strategic path. Before committing to a move, a strategist uses "What if" analysis to poke at the situation; if they find a "crocodile"—such as a bad variation, a misleading data set, or an uncooperative person—they do not try to force the issue. Instead of trying to "fix" a dangerous or dead-end situation, the strategist remains fluid and "formless," immediately retreating to find a different, more viable path forward.
Controlling the menu involves becoming the "infrastructure" of a room by curating meaning and information. According to the script, the person who defines the available options often has more power than the person who ultimately chooses from them. By calmly summarizing facts, identifying open questions, and presenting three concrete ways forward with their respective trade-offs, a strategist frames the entire debate and forces others to operate within the boundaries they have set.
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