Is Mass and the Rosary Necessary? Dealing with Religious Guilt
Explore the tension between family expectations and personal faith. Learn how to navigate religious guilt, mass attendance, and the necessity of the Rosary.
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If the environment feels like 'you must do this or you're a disappointment,' the brain naturally rebels to protect its autonomy. It’s not laziness; it’s a survival mechanism for your sense of self.
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Lastnight,mysistersaidweshouldpraytherosary.I replied,“Do it on your own,”and she got angry.I didn’t even go to church,then I can't even agree just a rosary.Honestly,I don’t like attending mass.I don’t know if I’m just introverted, shy, or lazy, maybe all.She said she wouldn’t force someone who doesn't want to and would ask our cousin instead.In my head,'As you should, praying doesn't even make you a good person.Such ba bastard, right?For me,mass or rosary isn’t even necessary.
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