Journaling Through Wife's Cancer Changed How I Coach

12 min

Apr 17, 2026

Discover how writing through a spouse's cancer journey transforms coaches from the inside out, creating deeper empathy and authentic presence that revolutionizes their ability to guide others through crisis and growth.

Journaling Through Wife's Cancer Changed How I Coach

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Journaling Through Wife's Cancer Changed How I Coach

Host voices

Lena

Knowledge sources

My Coaching Journey from Cancer to Healing - BraveSpark Wellness

https://bravesparkwellness.com/about-holistic-wellness-coach-cancer-survivors/

https://www.integritycoaching.co.uk/blog/well-being-and-resilience/my-cancer-diagnosis-learning-to-walk-in-the-dark/

Coach Monty Williams discusses life after his wife's death - Andscape

https://andscape.com/features/coach-monty-williams-discusses-life-after-his-wifes-death

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From Columbia University alumni built in San Francisco

BeFreed Brings Together A Global Community Of 1,000,000 Curious Minds

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"Instead of endless scrolling, I just hit play on BeFreed. It saves me so much time."

@Moemenn

"I never knew where to start with nonfiction—BeFreed’s book lists turned into podcasts gave me a clear path."

@Chloe, Solo founder, LA

117

"Perfect balance between learning and entertainment. Finished ‘Thinking, Fast and Slow’ on my commute this week."

@Raaaaaachelw

"Crazy how much I learned while walking the dog. BeFreed = small habits → big gains."

@Matt, YC alum

108

"Reading used to feel like a chore. Now it’s just part of my lifestyle."

@Erin, Investment Banking Associate , NYC

254

"Feels effortless compared to reading. I’ve finished 6 books this month already."

@djmikemoore

"BeFreed turned my guilty doomscrolling into something that feels productive and inspiring."

@Pitiful

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"BeFreed turned my commute into learning time. 20-min podcasts are perfect for finishing books I never had time for."

@SofiaP

"BeFreed replaced my podcast queue. Imagine Spotify for books — that’s it. 🙌"

@Jaded_Falcon

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"It is great for me to learn something from the book without reading it."

@OojasSalunke

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"Makes me feel smarter every time before going to work"

@Cashflowbubu

"Instead of endless scrolling, I just hit play on BeFreed. It saves me so much time."

@Moemenn

"I never knew where to start with nonfiction—BeFreed’s book lists turned into podcasts gave me a clear path."

@Chloe, Solo founder, LA

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"Perfect balance between learning and entertainment. Finished ‘Thinking, Fast and Slow’ on my commute this week."

@Raaaaaachelw

"Crazy how much I learned while walking the dog. BeFreed = small habits → big gains."

@Matt, YC alum

108

"Reading used to feel like a chore. Now it’s just part of my lifestyle."

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254

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"BeFreed turned my guilty doomscrolling into something that feels productive and inspiring."

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@Cashflowbubu

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"Perfect balance between learning and entertainment. Finished ‘Thinking, Fast and Slow’ on my commute this week."

@Raaaaaachelw

"Crazy how much I learned while walking the dog. BeFreed = small habits → big gains."

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"Reading used to feel like a chore. Now it’s just part of my lifestyle."

@Erin, Investment Banking Associate , NYC

254

"Feels effortless compared to reading. I’ve finished 6 books this month already."

@djmikemoore

"BeFreed turned my guilty doomscrolling into something that feels productive and inspiring."

@Pitiful

4.5K

"BeFreed turned my commute into learning time. 20-min podcasts are perfect for finishing books I never had time for."

@SofiaP

"BeFreed replaced my podcast queue. Imagine Spotify for books — that’s it. 🙌"

@Jaded_Falcon

201

"It is great for me to learn something from the book without reading it."

@OojasSalunke

"The themed book list podcasts help me connect ideas across authors—like a guided audio journey."

@Leo, Law Student, UPenn

483

"Makes me feel smarter every time before going to work"

@Cashflowbubu

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Journaling Through Wife's Cancer Changed How I Coach

12 min

Apr 17, 2026

Key Takeaways

When Life Breaks Open: The Sacred Space Where Healing Begins

0:00

The Anatomy of Sudden Devastation

0:48

1:24

2:01

The Refuge of Written Words

2:25

2:57

3:28

The Alchemy of Meaning-Making

4:02

4:41

5:20

The Coach's Dilemma: When Personal Becomes Professional

5:49

6:23

6:53

The Compassionate Edge: Coaching After Crisis

7:25

7:55

8:22

The Ripple Effect: From Personal Healing to Professional Transformation

8:52

9:20

9:51

The Sacred Practice: How to Journal Through Crisis

10:24

10:59

11:30

The Gift of Transformed Presence

11:58

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Generated by Carlos M.

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Journaling Through Wife's Cancer Changed How I Coach

Host voices

Lena

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https://bravesparkwellness.com/about-holistic-wellness-coach-cancer-survivors/

https://www.integritycoaching.co.uk/blog/well-being-and-resilience/my-cancer-diagnosis-learning-to-walk-in-the-dark/

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From Columbia University alumni built in San Francisco

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See more on how BeFreed is discussed across the web

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"I never knew where to start with nonfiction—BeFreed’s book lists turned into podcasts gave me a clear path."

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"BeFreed turned my commute into learning time. 20-min podcasts are perfect for finishing books I never had time for."

@SofiaP

"BeFreed replaced my podcast queue. Imagine Spotify for books — that’s it. 🙌"

@Jaded_Falcon

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"It is great for me to learn something from the book without reading it."

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"I never knew where to start with nonfiction—BeFreed’s book lists turned into podcasts gave me a clear path."

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@djmikemoore

"BeFreed turned my guilty doomscrolling into something that feels productive and inspiring."

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"It is great for me to learn something from the book without reading it."

@OojasSalunke

"The themed book list podcasts help me connect ideas across authors—like a guided audio journey."

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"Makes me feel smarter every time before going to work"

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"I never knew where to start with nonfiction—BeFreed’s book lists turned into podcasts gave me a clear path."

@Chloe, Solo founder, LA

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@Cashflowbubu

"Instead of endless scrolling, I just hit play on BeFreed. It saves me so much time."

@Moemenn

"I never knew where to start with nonfiction—BeFreed’s book lists turned into podcasts gave me a clear path."

@Chloe, Solo founder, LA

117

"Perfect balance between learning and entertainment. Finished ‘Thinking, Fast and Slow’ on my commute this week."

@Raaaaaachelw

"Crazy how much I learned while walking the dog. BeFreed = small habits → big gains."

@Matt, YC alum

108

"Reading used to feel like a chore. Now it’s just part of my lifestyle."

@Erin, Investment Banking Associate , NYC

254

"Feels effortless compared to reading. I’ve finished 6 books this month already."

@djmikemoore

"BeFreed turned my guilty doomscrolling into something that feels productive and inspiring."

@Pitiful

4.5K

"BeFreed turned my commute into learning time. 20-min podcasts are perfect for finishing books I never had time for."

@SofiaP

"BeFreed replaced my podcast queue. Imagine Spotify for books — that’s it. 🙌"

@Jaded_Falcon

201

"It is great for me to learn something from the book without reading it."

@OojasSalunke

"The themed book list podcasts help me connect ideas across authors—like a guided audio journey."

@Leo, Law Student, UPenn

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"Makes me feel smarter every time before going to work"

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