Learn to recognize self-neglect and people-pleasing in sexual relationships. Understand why you prioritize others' needs and how to rebuild your self-foundation.

Every time you override your own 'no' to keep the peace, you’re telling your nervous system that your needs don't matter. You’re essentially abandoning yourself to prevent someone else from abandoning you.
What are the first steps in recognizing why and how I reject all of my own needs and desires always putting others first, especially sexually; even when I don’t want it,. rather than asking my partner for sex, I seek out intimate experiences with friends I feel secure with which causes harm and further injury to my relationship with myself and my social foundation, which would be the basis for healing. . I am getting myself abused. They aren’t abusers. I’m creating victim scenarios for me.


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