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The Evolution of Friendship: Your Social Brain's Secret Superpower

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From Robin Dunbar's social brain theory to Harvard's 85-year happiness study, discover how friendship literally rewires your biology. Why do we need exactly 5 intimate connections? How does laughter create chemical bonds? BeFreed distills cutting-edge research showing friendship isn't just nice-it's as vital as exercise.

The Evolution of Friendship: Your Social Brain's Secret Superpower
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Modern Wisdom
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https://dexa.ai/modernwisdom/d/75d8377a-6992-11ee-b575-b7932ad70957
TED Talk
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https://www.ted.com/talks/robert_waldinger_what_makes_a_good_life_lessons_from_the_longest_study_on_happiness
Structure and function in human and primate social networks
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https://royalsocietypublishing.org/doi/full/10.1098/rspa.2020.0446
The Good Life
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https://www.befreed.ai/book/the-good-life-by-robert-waldinger
Social Laughter Triggers Endogenous Opioid Release in Humans
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https://doi.org/10.1523/JNEUROSCI.0688-16.2017
How many hours does it take to make a friend?
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https://www.ovid.com/journals/jspr/abstract/10.1177/0265407518761225~how-many-hours-does-it-take-to-make-a-friend
Modern Wisdom
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https://podbay.fm/p/modern-wisdom/e/1674108000
Robin Dunbar Explains Humans’ Circles of Friendship
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https://www.theatlantic.com/family/archive/2021/05/robin-dunbar-explains-circles-friendship-dunbars-number/618931/
The Strength of Weak Ties
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https://sociology.stanford.edu/publications/strength-weak-ties
Our Epidemic of Loneliness and Isolation
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https://www.hhs.gov/about/news/2023/05/03/new-surgeon-general-advisory-raises-alarm-about-devastating-impact-epidemic-loneliness-isolation-united-states.html
Social Ties and Susceptibility to the Common Cold
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https://jamanetwork.com/journals/jama/article-abstract/417085
Third places, true citizen spaces
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https://www.unesco.org/en/articles/third-places-true-citizen-spaces
Why a ‘Third Life’ Is the Answer to America’s Loneliness Epidemic
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https://time.com/7202834/third-life-america-loneliness-essay/
Loneliness and Social Isolation as Risk Factors for Mortality: A Meta‑Analytic Review
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https://scholarsarchive.byu.edu/facpub/7516/
TED Talk
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https://www.ted.com/speakers/susan_pinker
Dunbar’s Number: Why We Can Only Maintain 150 Relationships
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https://www.bbc.com/future/article/20191001-dunbars-number-why-we-can-only-maintain-150-relationships
It’s surprisingly nice to hear you: Misunderstanding the impact of communication media can lead to suboptimal choices of how to connect with others
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https://www.nicholasepley.com/publications
Social laughter is correlated with an elevated pain threshold
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https://royalsocietypublishing.org/doi/10.1098/rspb.2011.1373
Social Relationships and Mortality Risk: A Meta-analytic Review
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https://scholarsarchive.byu.edu/facpub/7519/
Social networks and cooperation in hunter‑gatherers
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https://www.nature.com/articles/nature10736
Silent disco: dancing in synchrony leads to elevated pain thresholds and social closeness
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https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC4985033/
Comparative analysis of layered structures in empirical investor networks and cellphone communication networks
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https://link.springer.com/article/10.1140/epjds/s13688-020-00230-1
What does friendship look like in America?
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https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2023/10/12/what-does-friendship-look-like-in-america/
TED Talk
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https://www.ted.com/speakers/nicholas_christakis
Huberman Lab
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https://www.hubermanlab.com/episode/science-of-social-bonding-in-family-friendship-and-romantic-love
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