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    Drop the Ball: Expect Less from Yourself, Get More from Him, and Flourish at Work and Life
    Tiffany Dufu
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    Overwhelmed working mothers, exhale: Tiffany Dufu's "Drop the Ball" revolutionizes work-life balance by challenging you to do less. Her viral Excel spreadsheet for dividing household duties has become a blueprint for ambitious women reclaiming their time - and sanity.

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