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    From Conflict to Connection: Rewiring Your Relationship Triggers

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    2026年3月1日
    RelationshipPsychologyCommunication skill

    Discover the biological roots of relationship conflict and learn practical tools to pause the 'fight-or-flight' response. This episode offers a roadmap for setting loving boundaries and mastering the art of the ninety-second reset.

    From Conflict to Connection: Rewiring Your Relationship Triggers

    From Conflict to Connection: Rewiring Your Relationship Triggers最佳语录

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    The goal isn't to never get triggered—because we can’t control those 12 milliseconds—but to move from shame to curiosity and catch that six-second window to pause and choose a different response.

    ”

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    输入问题

    My wife and I often get into conversations which where we trigger each other. How can I come to a place where I can minimize myself being triggered and hopefully not escalate the situation? Also, what are avenues where I can continue to grow at my own end creating healthier and loving boundaries?

    主持声音
    Lenaplay
    Milesplay
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    知识来源
    The Anger Control Workbook
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    When Anger Hurts Your Kids
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    Communication in Marriage

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    Defusing the Relationship Minefield

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    2

    Understanding the Biology of the Snap

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    1:23
    1:46
    0:48
    2:24
    2:41
    3:03
    3:16
    3:37
    3:51
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    Deciphering Your Attachment Fingerprint

    4:11
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    5:39
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    6:19
    6:50
    7:06
    7:25
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    The Power of the Ninety-Second Reset

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    8:43
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    9:56
    10:14
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    Co-Regulation and the Social Baseline

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    The Art of the Repair Conversation

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    Building a Daily Prevention Architecture

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    Boundaries as Acts of Love

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    Your Practical Playbook for Re-wiring Connection

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    Closing Reflections: From Conflict to Connection

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