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    Explore why we're drawn to sad love songs when heartbroken, and how this paradoxical comfort might be the key to healing. Miles and Lena examine the science, poetry, and universal experience of musical heartbreak therapy.

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    There is nothing as whole as a broken heart. It's the difference between visiting your pain and moving in with it permanently; the music becomes a container for our pain, helping us process it rather than just endure it.

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