Explore how patriarchy and trauma shape the false self. Learn how the body keeps the score through the amygdala and the psychological impact of our social systems.

Patriarchy is actually a psychological layer that has compromised the collective superego of humanity, forcing individuals to build a 'false self' just to survive within a system that prioritizes control over connection.
Summary of the book 'The Body Keeps the Score' by Bessel van der Kolk, focusing on the specific theme that patriarchy is a broken system that has compromised the collective superego of civilization and forced the creation of a false self.






Patriarchy is described as an insidious psychological layer that functions like a six-thousand-year-old operating system. Rather than just being a political arrangement, it compromises the collective superego of humanity and forces individuals to build a false self to survive within its structure. This system prioritizes control over connection, leading to a fundamental shift in how individuals present themselves to the world while suppressing their true identity.
Based on research by Bessel van der Kolk, the body keeps the score by physically manifesting the effects of past trauma in real-time. When a person experiences significant trauma, such as childhood abuse or violence, the brain rewires itself. This process turns the amygdala, the brain's internal alarm system, to a permanent high-alert setting. Consequently, trauma is not just a memory but a physical reality that can manifest as chronic pain and emotional numbness.
The amygdala serves as the body's internal alarm system, which becomes hyper-activated due to the building blocks of a society focused on control. The constant friction and status-seeking found in patriarchal structures contribute to collective burnout and individual anxiety. When the body experiences these systemic pressures as trauma, the amygdala stays on high alert, showing that the anxiety felt by individuals is often a symptom of a crashed social operating system rather than a personal flaw.
Criado por ex-alunos da Universidade de Columbia em San Francisco
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Criado por ex-alunos da Universidade de Columbia em San Francisco
