How to Know a Person by David Brooks Summary
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In "How to Know a Person," David Brooks reveals the art of deep human connection in our age of isolation. Bill Gates calls it better than "Road to Character," praising Brooks' practical "loud listening" technique that makes people feel truly seen - a vital skill in our fragmented society.
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We All Long to Be Truly Seen
Have you ever felt invisible in a crowded room? That gnawing sense that people look at you but don't really *see* you? This universal hunger for recognition runs deeper than we might imagine. It's not vanity or neediness-it's as fundamental to our survival as food and water. When someone truly sees us, acknowledging our full humanity with all its contradictions and complexities, something profound shifts inside. We feel validated, understood, alive. Yet we live in an age of creeping dehumanization. People are reduced to political labels, social media profiles, data points in an algorithm. We scroll past hundreds of faces daily without pausing to wonder about the inner worlds behind them. This erosion of genuine seeing has consequences: epidemic loneliness, fractured relationships, a society where everyone talks but few truly listen. The skill of deeply knowing another person-once passed down through generations-has become dangerously rare. We're worse at reading others than we think, often projecting our own experiences onto their situations. Even married couples, despite years of intimacy, routinely miss what's happening in their partner's heart. The foundational skill isn't just being open-hearted, though that matters. It's developing specific social capabilities that help us truly see and understand others-capabilities most of us were never taught.
What Blinds Us to Each Other
The Illuminator's Gift
The Practice of Being Alongside
The Art of Genuine Conversation
The Journey Home to Connection
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Criado por ex-alunos da Universidade de Columbia em San Francisco
"Instead of endless scrolling, I just hit play on BeFreed. It saves me so much time."
"I never knew where to start with nonfiction—BeFreed’s book lists turned into podcasts gave me a clear path."
"Perfect balance between learning and entertainment. Finished ‘Thinking, Fast and Slow’ on my commute this week."
"Crazy how much I learned while walking the dog. BeFreed = small habits → big gains."
"Reading used to feel like a chore. Now it’s just part of my lifestyle."
"Feels effortless compared to reading. I’ve finished 6 books this month already."
"BeFreed turned my guilty doomscrolling into something that feels productive and inspiring."
"BeFreed turned my commute into learning time. 20-min podcasts are perfect for finishing books I never had time for."
"BeFreed replaced my podcast queue. Imagine Spotify for books — that’s it. 🙌"
"It is great for me to learn something from the book without reading it."
"The themed book list podcasts help me connect ideas across authors—like a guided audio journey."
"Makes me feel smarter every time before going to work"
"Instead of endless scrolling, I just hit play on BeFreed. It saves me so much time."
"I never knew where to start with nonfiction—BeFreed’s book lists turned into podcasts gave me a clear path."
"Perfect balance between learning and entertainment. Finished ‘Thinking, Fast and Slow’ on my commute this week."
"Crazy how much I learned while walking the dog. BeFreed = small habits → big gains."
"Reading used to feel like a chore. Now it’s just part of my lifestyle."
"Feels effortless compared to reading. I’ve finished 6 books this month already."
"BeFreed turned my guilty doomscrolling into something that feels productive and inspiring."
"BeFreed turned my commute into learning time. 20-min podcasts are perfect for finishing books I never had time for."
"BeFreed replaced my podcast queue. Imagine Spotify for books — that’s it. 🙌"
"It is great for me to learn something from the book without reading it."
"The themed book list podcasts help me connect ideas across authors—like a guided audio journey."
"Makes me feel smarter every time before going to work"
"Instead of endless scrolling, I just hit play on BeFreed. It saves me so much time."
"I never knew where to start with nonfiction—BeFreed’s book lists turned into podcasts gave me a clear path."
"Perfect balance between learning and entertainment. Finished ‘Thinking, Fast and Slow’ on my commute this week."
"Crazy how much I learned while walking the dog. BeFreed = small habits → big gains."
"Reading used to feel like a chore. Now it’s just part of my lifestyle."
"Feels effortless compared to reading. I’ve finished 6 books this month already."
"BeFreed turned my guilty doomscrolling into something that feels productive and inspiring."
"BeFreed turned my commute into learning time. 20-min podcasts are perfect for finishing books I never had time for."
"BeFreed replaced my podcast queue. Imagine Spotify for books — that’s it. 🙌"
"It is great for me to learn something from the book without reading it."
"The themed book list podcasts help me connect ideas across authors—like a guided audio journey."
"Makes me feel smarter every time before going to work"
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