How to Reconnect and Pursue a College Friend with a Boyfriend
Learn how to navigate complex relationship dynamics when reconnecting with a college friend. Explore advice on social intelligence and managing attraction.
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Real love, or even deep friendship, often means wanting the best for the other person even if you aren't the one providing it. If you truly value her, you have to value her choices, too—including her choice to be with someone else right now.
This audio lesson was created by a BeFreed community member
I have a best friend from college. I went away and stopped talking. Now I want to fuck her bad at least once. We talk now but she has a boyfriend and she's well read then me.
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"BeFreed turned my guilty doomscrolling into something that feels productive and inspiring."
"BeFreed turned my commute into learning time. 20-min podcasts are perfect for finishing books I never had time for."
"BeFreed replaced my podcast queue. Imagine Spotify for books — that’s it. 🙌"
"It is great for me to learn something from the book without reading it."
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