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    A former Navy SEAL commander reveals why mental toughness actually hurts performance under pressure, and shares the psychological flexibility techniques that help you thrive in high-stakes situations.

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    The key difference between people who thrive under pressure versus those who crumble isn't about being tougher; it's about mental flexibility and learning to work with your mind rather than being ruled by it.

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