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    Gleichgültigkeit lernen: Was andere denken ist egal

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    Lerne, wie du echte Gleichgültigkeit entwickelst und endlich einen Fick darauf gibst, was andere denken. Überwinde peinliche Situationen und stärke dein Ego.

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    Wahre Gleichgültigkeit bedeutet nicht, dass dir die Menschen egal sind, sondern dass ihre Meinung über dich nicht mehr über deinen Selbstwert entscheidet.

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    Ich möchte lernen wie man einen fick auf alles und jeden geben kann. Ich will gleichgültigkeit entwickeln gegenüber peinlichen Situationen oder was andere von mir denken und halten. Ich will keine moralpredigt.

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