From Divorce to VP: 75 Hard Leadership Lessons

12 min

Apr 17, 2026

How completing 75 Hard during divorce became the ultimate executive training program. Discover why your toughest personal moments forge the resilience and decision-making skills that separate good managers from exceptional VPs.

From Divorce to VP: 75 Hard Leadership Lessons

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I Did 75 Hard During My Divorce and Built My VP Promotion Strategy

Host voices

Miles

Knowledge sources

https://agile-ideation.com/blog/2023/8/31/why-im-discontinuing-75hard-and-the-leadership-lessons-learned

How My Life Improved Tremendously In Just 75Days - Here's 6 Practical Lessons From 75 Hard | by Chris Tan | Medium

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From Columbia University alumni built in San Francisco

BeFreed Brings Together A Global Community Of 1,000,000 Curious Minds

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"Instead of endless scrolling, I just hit play on BeFreed. It saves me so much time."

@Moemenn

"I never knew where to start with nonfiction—BeFreed’s book lists turned into podcasts gave me a clear path."

@Chloe, Solo founder, LA

117

"Perfect balance between learning and entertainment. Finished ‘Thinking, Fast and Slow’ on my commute this week."

@Raaaaaachelw

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@Matt, YC alum

108

"Reading used to feel like a chore. Now it’s just part of my lifestyle."

@Erin, Investment Banking Associate , NYC

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"Feels effortless compared to reading. I’ve finished 6 books this month already."

@djmikemoore

"BeFreed turned my guilty doomscrolling into something that feels productive and inspiring."

@Pitiful

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@SofiaP

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"It is great for me to learn something from the book without reading it."

@OojasSalunke

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@Leo, Law Student, UPenn

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"Makes me feel smarter every time before going to work"

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"Instead of endless scrolling, I just hit play on BeFreed. It saves me so much time."

@Moemenn

"I never knew where to start with nonfiction—BeFreed’s book lists turned into podcasts gave me a clear path."

@Chloe, Solo founder, LA

117

"Perfect balance between learning and entertainment. Finished ‘Thinking, Fast and Slow’ on my commute this week."

@Raaaaaachelw

"Crazy how much I learned while walking the dog. BeFreed = small habits → big gains."

@Matt, YC alum

108

"Reading used to feel like a chore. Now it’s just part of my lifestyle."

@Erin, Investment Banking Associate , NYC

254

"Feels effortless compared to reading. I’ve finished 6 books this month already."

@djmikemoore

"BeFreed turned my guilty doomscrolling into something that feels productive and inspiring."

@Pitiful

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"BeFreed turned my commute into learning time. 20-min podcasts are perfect for finishing books I never had time for."

@SofiaP

"BeFreed replaced my podcast queue. Imagine Spotify for books — that’s it. 🙌"

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"Crazy how much I learned while walking the dog. BeFreed = small habits → big gains."

@Matt, YC alum

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"Reading used to feel like a chore. Now it’s just part of my lifestyle."

@Erin, Investment Banking Associate , NYC

254

"Feels effortless compared to reading. I’ve finished 6 books this month already."

@djmikemoore

"BeFreed turned my guilty doomscrolling into something that feels productive and inspiring."

@Pitiful

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"BeFreed turned my commute into learning time. 20-min podcasts are perfect for finishing books I never had time for."

@SofiaP

"BeFreed replaced my podcast queue. Imagine Spotify for books — that’s it. 🙌"

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@OojasSalunke

"The themed book list podcasts help me connect ideas across authors—like a guided audio journey."

@Leo, Law Student, UPenn

483

"Makes me feel smarter every time before going to work"

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From Divorce to VP: 75 Hard Leadership Lessons

12 min

Apr 17, 2026

Key Takeaways

When Life Hits You From All Sides

0:00

The Crucible Moments That Forge Leaders

0:49

1:17

1:56

The Science of Simultaneous Transformation

2:26

2:56

3:20

Why Your Divorce Actually Prepared You for Executive Leadership

3:50

4:15

4:41

The Hidden Leadership Lessons in Daily Discipline

5:07

5:38

6:11

Transforming Pain Into Professional Advantage

6:35

7:05

7:29

The Strategic Advantage of Radical Self-Honesty

7:55

8:18

8:41

Building Your Executive Identity Through Intentional Action

9:08

9:30

9:51

Your Unique Value Proposition as a Battle-Tested Leader

10:21

10:51

11:19

11:48

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I Did 75 Hard During My Divorce and Built My VP Promotion Strategy

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https://chris-tan.medium.com/how-my-life-changed-in-just-7%EF%B8%8F%E2%83%A35%EF%B8%8F%E2%83%A3days-heres-6-practical-lessons-from-75-hard-1c538b8c493a

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BeFreed Brings Together A Global Community Of 1,000,000 Curious Minds

See more on how BeFreed is discussed across the web

"Instead of endless scrolling, I just hit play on BeFreed. It saves me so much time."

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"It is great for me to learn something from the book without reading it."

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@djmikemoore

"BeFreed turned my guilty doomscrolling into something that feels productive and inspiring."

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@SofiaP

"BeFreed replaced my podcast queue. Imagine Spotify for books — that’s it. 🙌"

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"It is great for me to learn something from the book without reading it."

@OojasSalunke

"The themed book list podcasts help me connect ideas across authors—like a guided audio journey."

@Leo, Law Student, UPenn

483

"Makes me feel smarter every time before going to work"

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"I never knew where to start with nonfiction—BeFreed’s book lists turned into podcasts gave me a clear path."

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@OojasSalunke

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"Makes me feel smarter every time before going to work"

@Cashflowbubu

"Instead of endless scrolling, I just hit play on BeFreed. It saves me so much time."

@Moemenn

"I never knew where to start with nonfiction—BeFreed’s book lists turned into podcasts gave me a clear path."

@Chloe, Solo founder, LA

117

"Perfect balance between learning and entertainment. Finished ‘Thinking, Fast and Slow’ on my commute this week."

@Raaaaaachelw

"Crazy how much I learned while walking the dog. BeFreed = small habits → big gains."

@Matt, YC alum

108

"Reading used to feel like a chore. Now it’s just part of my lifestyle."

@Erin, Investment Banking Associate , NYC

254

"Feels effortless compared to reading. I’ve finished 6 books this month already."

@djmikemoore

"BeFreed turned my guilty doomscrolling into something that feels productive and inspiring."

@Pitiful

4.5K

"BeFreed turned my commute into learning time. 20-min podcasts are perfect for finishing books I never had time for."

@SofiaP

"BeFreed replaced my podcast queue. Imagine Spotify for books — that’s it. 🙌"

@Jaded_Falcon

201

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@OojasSalunke

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