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    Staying close to an ex who moved on is physically draining. Learn how to use short scripts and firm exit dates to set boundaries and reclaim your peace.

    Ending a situationship when you're still in love

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    Clarity is the only thing that kills convenient ambiguity. If someone is used to the 'social fog' of a situationship, they’ll find ways to stay in it as long as the other person allows it.

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    I have had a three year on and off Situationship with a man who got engaged to another woman. We have mutual friends. We are both second degree black belts. We work out together still, and there is an unrequited love a sexual tension between us during some recent tragedies in my life. He has been here for me, taking me out to breakfast showing heartfelt concern. I need actionable steps to tell him that I think our behavior is wrong,but I’m pulled help. How can I suppress my feelings?

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