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The Spiritual Journey of a Rap Icon
When Jay-Z puts a book on his nightstand, people notice. When Oprah recommends it on her podcast, it sells out overnight. "Go Higher" by Big Sean has become that rare crossover sensation-a spiritual guide from an unexpected source that's resonating across demographics. This isn't just another celebrity memoir or typical self-help book. It's a raw, vulnerable exploration of how a Detroit kid who once rapped for Kanye West in a radio station hallway transformed his life through meditation, journaling, and spiritual practice. As Beyonce reportedly told her team after reading it, "This is exactly what the culture needs right now-vulnerability from someone we least expected it from." The book has sparked conversations about mental health in hip-hop circles where such discussions were once taboo, with everyone from Drake to Kendrick Lamar praising Sean's courage in sharing his journey from depression to enlightenment.
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Accept Your Reality Before Changing It
Acceptance forms the foundation of all personal growth. It means seeing yourself and your situation clearly, without denial or delusion. Before you can transform anything in your life, you must first acknowledge where you truly stand.
Growing up in Detroit, I learned early that acceptance doesn't mean resignation. When I was eleven, I started rapping with friends on my block despite being physically small. I named myself "Big Sean" anyway-not as denial but as aspiration. I accepted my current reality while envisioning something greater.
Acceptance extends to recognizing your desires, background, talents, and flaws. It means acknowledging the world as it is, not as you wish it were. When you face reality without shame or regret, you create space for genuine change. This practice helped me through my first bout of depression when Kanye West initially offered to sign me at seventeen, then disappeared for two years. Instead of denying my disappointment, I accepted it as part of my journey.
Part of acceptance involves appreciating what you already have before focusing on what needs changing. This gratitude creates emotional space for new possibilities. When I finally got signed after years of waiting, I had to accept both the joy of achievement and the pressure of expectations.
The most powerful form of acceptance is self-acceptance. During my worst depression in 2017, despite having everything I'd dreamed of-money, fame, success-I couldn't answer when my therapist asked what made me happy. I broke down crying. Only by accepting this disconnection from my joy could I begin healing.
Acceptance doesn't mean you can't have ambition or desire change. Rather, it means you're starting from an honest assessment of your current reality. As I tell my son Noah, accepting yourself-your strengths and weaknesses-is the first step toward becoming who you're meant to be.
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Strategize Your Path Forward
Once you've accepted your reality, the next step is developing a strategy to move forward. I constantly ask myself: "How could it get any better than this?" This question works whether you're at rock bottom or experiencing your greatest success. There are no limits to how much the universe loves you.
When strategizing, I first ask myself how to expedite what I believe is destined to happen. Who can help me go higher? Everyone approaches strategy differently-some research online, others learn from mentors, some need sensory experiences. The key is finding what works for you.
My strategy for breaking into the music industry involved performing everywhere possible-every open mic, lunchroom rap battle, and talent show. I showed up consistently, regardless of venue size. When I didn't have immediate answers, I asked "How can I?" This question is like talking to the universe, inviting unexpected solutions.
Strategic thinking helped me navigate the years between meeting Kanye and actually releasing music. While waiting for my big break, I built my local reputation, made crucial connections, and perfected my craft. I established myself in Detroit's scene, connecting with other artists like Mike Posner. Despite earning a full scholarship to Michigan State with a 3.7 GPA, I strategically chose to pursue rap-disappointing my education-focused family but following my calling.
When faced with disappointment-like when G.O.O.D. Music wanted to sign me but not my group partner-I had to strategize my next steps carefully. While he spiraled into negativity, I maintained faith and developed a plan to stand out among other signed artists who never took off.
Effective strategy also means planning for financial stability. Growing up, I witnessed my parents' financial struggles despite their hard work. This instilled both my desire for financial freedom and strategic thinking about money. When I earned my first real money-a $15,000 check from G.O.O.D. Music-I quickly learned about money's fluid nature as it slipped through my fingers. This taught me to strategize multiple income streams: building my fanbase, performing shows (sometimes for free initially), and leveraging Kanye's co-sign.
Remember that strategy isn't just about career or finances-it applies to relationships, health, and spiritual growth too. The most powerful strategies align with your authentic self and highest purpose.
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Try Consistently and Persistently
Many people with big dreams fail at this crucial step-they expect immediate greatness without putting in consistent effort. But you must try repeatedly to excel. As Einstein said, "You never fail until you stop trying."
When I started my rap career, I performed at every opportunity-open mics, lunchroom rap battles, talent shows-to improve my skills. I showed up even as a last-minute substitute without letting pride interfere. By putting myself out there consistently, the universe responded with opportunities and connections.
My first radio appearance on Friday Night Cypher was a disaster-I messed up completely. But I kept trying. When I boldly approached Kanye West at a radio station and rapped for him as he walked out, it seemed like my big break. He was impressed enough to invite me to his listening party, but contrary to what people assume, no deal immediately followed. For years, communication with his label was sporadic, plunging me into depression as I slept in my childhood twin bed while friends attended college.
During this difficult period, I built my spiritual foundation through meditation and self-help books. I visualized success, treated creativity as my job, and kept writing constantly. After four years of persistence, G.O.O.D. Music finally wanted to sign me. It took six years from meeting Kanye until my album released in 2011. Despite watching friends graduate college while I waited, my mother encouraged me to "stick to it."
Trying also means pushing through discomfort. I rarely get super-nervous before shows, but my 2022 Coachella performance had me anxious. After two Covid cancellations, I was finally performing on one of music's biggest stages. Despite hearing discouraging reports about "dry" crowds, I meditated and visualized an incredible show. When I arrived, my pregnant partner Jhene encouraged me. The performer before me killed it, making me nervous, but I reminded myself: "I wouldn't be here if I wasn't meant to be." The show was phenomenal-I was in my flow, completely present.
Being uncomfortable means you're in uncharted territory with endless possibilities. Whether you're at the top of your game or have completely bombed, every situation presents an opportunity to learn and grow. You just have to recognize it and keep trying.
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Trust Your Instincts and the Right People
The middle of "trust" contains "u"-you must trust yourself first. I've sometimes trusted others more than myself, which occasionally worked but often led to regret when things went wrong. Trusting yourself is like exercising a muscle; the more you use your instincts, the stronger they become.
Even making mistakes while being true to yourself feels better than succeeding with someone else's plan. If you don't trust yourself, examine why-do you feel unworthy? Are you self-sabotaging? Trust requires maintaining faith despite constant tests.
My journey taught me to trust my instincts about relationships too. To me, a friend is a friend is a friend-they're either good or not real friendships. True friends connect with you, support you (though not blindly), question you, and inspire different sides of you. We sometimes lose sight of friendship's meaning when we get close to the wrong people-imposters infiltrating our hearts.
Friendships don't always last forever. As you evolve, you may no longer connect with certain people energetically. That's natural-your life progresses, and you shouldn't feel guilty about your changing needs. With real friends, even after a year or two apart, reconnecting feels like you haven't missed a beat.
Finding the right people in my life took significant trying and manifesting. Once I clearly articulated my needs, the right people magically appeared to guide me into new life phases. My friendship with Mike Posner exemplifies this-we can go long periods without contact, then reconnect instantly.
Trust extends to romantic relationships too. One of the greatest challenges is accepting who's actually sitting in front of us rather than some fantasy version of our partner. Finding clarity requires open communication instead of game-playing or assumptions. I'm no saint in relationships and have certainly crossed lines, but I've learned from previous experiences.
We're all capable of spiraling into fear or doubt, inventing problems where none exist. I've learned that someone's ego can be hurt by something you might not consider significant. What matters is trying to see the person clearly before you, sharing your feelings openly, and approaching both your feelings and theirs with curiosity.
Remember that your deepest lifelong relationship is with yourself-so don't forget self-trust, and keep people around who nurture that relationship.
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Manifest Your Desires Through Alignment
I see patterns of interconnectedness everywhere-like cars moving in synchronicity on highways, resembling blood cells in veins. The key is learning to flow with this harmony rather than fighting against it. When you align your energy intentionally, you begin manifesting goals, though not always on your terms.
When vibrating at the right frequency, you attract what you need. When I wanted to be a rapper, I met others who rapped on my block-we were magnetically drawn together. This wasn't coincidence but manifestation.
Manifestation works through two powerful practices: affirmations and agreements. Affirmations are like daily pep talks: "I am brilliant. I am free. I am loving. I am unstoppable." I use them to connect my conscious mind with my soul, expressing gratitude and stating what I want to be true.
Agreements are like year-round New Year's resolutions that evolve with your situation-essentially intentions I make with the universe. Some examples include: "God is supporting me always. Anything that happens is for my betterment and the greater good" and "I'm grateful the universe will always supply me with more than I need for opportunities and inspiration."
I've manifested many dreams: writing this book by assembling the right team; buying a white Mercedes S-550 at age twenty-two after putting it on my vision board; receiving a coveted Jesus Piece chain from Kanye; hearing my first hit "My Last" on the radio; buying a house for my mom and grandma; and most importantly, my relationship with my son Noah.
A few years ago, I decided to focus solely on creativity despite my accountant's concerns. I trusted I'd laid enough groundwork that money would come-and it did through a Vegas residency offer that let me maintain my creative work while supporting myself.
Manifestation isn't just wishful thinking-it requires alignment between your thoughts, feelings, and actions. Before my third album released, many had lost faith in me after my second album underperformed. Just before the album dropped, I spent thirty minutes alone praying, connecting with my grandmother who had passed months earlier. Though I couldn't see or hear her, I felt her energy telling me to "Have faith in it." The album became my first number one-a life-changing achievement where everything aligned: I'd accepted my work's goodness, strategized its release, tried my best to share it, trusted the universe, and manifested the best outcome.
Remember that manifestation works when you speak things aloud with righteous intentions. Your subconscious will believe something before your conscious mind does if you keep repeating and living it.
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Tools for Spiritual Growth
Throughout my journey, I've developed several practices that have transformed my life: meditation, journaling, therapy, and connecting with nature. These aren't just self-help techniques-they're spiritual disciplines that build your connection to something greater.
Meditation isn't about completely blanking your mind-it's simply taking conscious time to be still and connect with yourself. Even if your mind races, the fact that you're taking time away from distractions to focus on breathing means you're doing more for yourself than you realize.
My meditation process starts with journaling as "spiritual foreplay," then visualizing myself in nature. I breathe deeply, imagining myself surrounded by light entering my body and replacing negativity. I create a protective royal blue barrier around myself, representing power, followed by a rose bubble symbolizing unconditional love. Finally, I picture a violet flame burning away anything hindering me.
Journaling helps me manage anxiety. When that nagging feeling that something is wrong creeps in, writing helps me process emotions without assigning undue meaning to them. I see journaling as a way to check in with myself, document where I am mentally, and create something to look back on years later. My journaling practice typically focuses on gratitude-noting what I'm thankful for and how I want to improve my life.
Therapy provides a safe space to explore thoughts and feelings with someone trained to guide you constructively. Even when therapists don't tell you anything new, the intentional focus on yourself makes it worthwhile. The relief after a therapy session is profound-you can unpack burdens and leave them there, rather than burdening loved ones who have their own struggles.
Connecting with nature brings me back to the present moment and helps me feel grounded. Even when a full hike isn't possible, stepping outside for a few minutes to focus on deep breathing can be transformative. For grounding, I recommend taking off your shoes and feeling your feet on the earth, imagining your energy connecting to the center of the planet.
These practices aren't just for mental health-they're for spiritual health too. I believe we should maintain our spiritual health just like our physical health-with regular attention and care. What if we treated our spiritual health proactively rather than waiting for crisis?
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Leaving a Legacy Through Healing
My grandmother picked cotton and my great-great-aunt was born into slavery. I believe we pass along not just our strengths but also our pain and traumas to future generations. That's why healing ourselves is crucial-not just for our own lives, but for those who come after us.
When my son Noah was born, I understood with mathematical certainty that I would live on through him. Looking at him, I see how we're all interconnected. Noah radiates golden positivity like a pure angel. I cherish holding him, knowing these moments won't last as he grows more independent every day.
Children remind us how interconnected we all are. The point of life is becoming better for yourself and those around you. With each generation, we can keep getting healthier and stronger. I hope to pass confidence, good health, and intelligence to Noah while breaking generational trauma.
Whatever we want to change in ourselves-fear of failure, lack of confidence, health issues-we must address now because it all gets passed on. My parents warned me not to be too flashy to avoid police attention. When I speak to Noah about these issues, I hope to help him be himself without making himself smaller to stay safe.
Through the Sean Anderson Foundation, we help kids through after-school programs, meditation training, mental health talks, and community events. While giving back can change trajectories, I believe legacy isn't something to focus on directly-do your best work, and legacy takes care of itself.
I learned profound lessons about treating people well from Pharrell Williams, who gave the same respect to someone sweeping the floor as he would to a superstar. This approach has practical benefits too-I recently had someone book me again because they remembered how professional, kind and easy to work with I was eight years earlier.
When faced with difficult people, I've learned to control my emotions rather than letting them control me. I recognize negative feelings as temporary and focus on understanding the other person's perspective. I make a practice of wishing good things for people after our interactions, regardless of whether they reciprocate.
Remember that taking care of yourself allows you to be a blessing to your family, team, and community. Your personal growth pushes your circle forward rather than weighing it down, creating positive effects for generations to come.
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Embracing Life's Temporary Nature
On New Year's 2020, I met Kobe Bryant at a party. We connected over our shared practice of meditation, exchanged numbers, and he expressed interest in hearing my new music. I was excited but postponed reaching out because I wanted to perfect my work first. Less than a month later, Kobe died in a helicopter crash.
This profound loss reinforced a crucial lesson: we're here for a limited time only. We can't expect people to always be there, and none of us knows our expiration date. Rather than letting this reality paralyze us with fear, I believe in using awareness of mortality as motivation. The question I frequently ask myself and others is: "What are you going to do with the time you've got left?"
I've learned to balance hustle with appreciation for the present moment. Time is relentless-it doesn't slow down unless you make it slow. When I rush from one thing to another, time speeds up. Ironically, the only way to stretch time is to slow down and fully appreciate every minute.
Growing up, my grandmother took me to church every Sunday. Though I didn't appreciate it then, I'm now grateful for the structure, ritual, and family time it provided. This taught me an important lesson: recognize your blessings while you have them, not just in hindsight.
I regret not appreciating my grandmother's cooking before she had a stroke. Now I remind myself not to wait for people to die to express my feelings or enjoy their presence. Forgiveness requires identifying what you're holding shame around and reconciling with your humanity and inevitable mistakes.
Every day, I feel the protection of my grandparents and ancestors. I believe our earthly existence may be our only opportunity to progress spiritually through experiencing the full range of human emotions. What if our struggles are actually growth opportunities for our souls? Viewing challenges this way makes them more bearable-they're expanding us.
I've realized the importance of balance-enjoying life while working. No executive on their deathbed wishes they'd spent more time at the office. Our life experiences add depth and emotion to our work like seasoning on food. Now I cherish moments of pleasure-walks with my son, Detroit Lions games, NBA courtside seats-because they're temporary.
Remember that nothing lasts forever-all pain is temporary. Changing your perspective from "I have to" to "I get to" can transform your experience. Through disciplined inner work and self-validation rather than seeking external approval, you can achieve true greatness, regardless of where you're starting from.
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Creating Your Own Definition of Success
I recently flew to Vegas with my DJ who had moved back to Detroit from LA because living in California was too expensive. Initially, he saw returning to Detroit as a defeat, but when the pandemic hit, he realized it was actually a blessing. In Detroit, he found opportunities booking Tigers and Pistons games due to our reputation in the city. He's now buying houses and building wealth, no longer wanting to live in LA.
This showed me how we often work too hard to live by others' standards rather than what truly serves us. We put ourselves in an imagined race with deadlines and expectations that don't align with our deeper needs. We give critics too much power over our creations and happiness.
Creating your own definition of success is crucial because it looks different for everyone. Comparing yourself to others is wasteful when we're all on unique journeys. There's no "failing" if you're following your intuition. Be open to new pathways and possibilities, approaching life as a student constantly learning and unlearning.
My older brother Brett exemplifies defining success on his own terms. Despite my fame and wealth, he's never shown jealousy or resentment, rarely asks for anything, and sets his own goals whether in fitness or his work as a day trader.
There's a crucial difference between expectations and intentions. An intention comes with openness to positive change-I intend to be a good friend because I admire someone. Expectations set you up for failure. None of us is entitled to anything, but intentions with genuine energy behind them are meaningful.
This approach has served me well. When I first met Jay-Z, I intended (but didn't expect) to work with him someday. Eventually it happened naturally-he put me on "Clique" without my asking, and later gave me a Roc-a-Fella chain and became my manager. These connections weren't accidents but culminations of moments built on intention rather than expectation.
Remember that your purpose isn't about pleasing everyone or impressing the world-it's about expressing yourself with dignity and making yourself proud. Self-care isn't selfish; as you improve, you help everyone around you become more conscious of their own potential.
