What is *Can We Talk?* by Roberta Chinsky Matuson about?

*Can We Talk?* provides a framework for managing difficult workplace conversations through seven principles: confidence, clarity, compassion, curiosity, compromise, credibility, and courage. It offers actionable strategies to transform exchanges into productive dialogue, emphasizing empathy, active listening, and mutual understanding. The book includes real-world scenarios, scripts, and lessons from failed conversations to help readers navigate conflicts and foster collaboration.

Who should read *Can We Talk?*?

Executives, team leaders, and employees seeking to improve workplace communication will benefit most. It’s ideal for those navigating tough discussions with colleagues, supervisors, or direct reports. The book also supports organizations aiming to build a culture of open dialogue and trust.

What are the seven principles of effective communication in *Can We Talk?*?

Roberta Matuson’s seven principles are: - **Confidence**: Approach conversations with self-assurance. - **Clarity**: Articulate ideas plainly. - **Compassion**: Prioritize empathy. - **Curiosity**: Ask questions to understand others. - **Compromise**: Seek mutually beneficial outcomes. - **Credibility**: Build trust through consistency. - **Courage**: Address uncomfortable topics directly. These principles guide readers to resolve conflicts and strengthen relationships.

How does *Can We Talk?* address nonverbal communication?

The book highlights nonverbal cues—body language, tone, and eye contact—as critical to conveying intent. It advises aligning verbal and nonverbal signals to avoid misinterpretation and provides strategies to read others’ cues effectively. For example, leaning in shows engagement, while crossed arms may signal defensiveness.

What frameworks does *Can We Talk?* offer for tough conversations?

Matuson introduces the **Four Levels of Communication**: 1. **Data**: Factual exchange. 2. **Meaning**: Shared understanding. 3. **Connection**: Emotional engagement. 4. **Inspiration**: Visionary dialogue. Moving beyond superficial levels helps build deeper workplace relationships. The book also provides checklists to prepare for and structure difficult discussions.

Does *Can We Talk?* include real-world examples?

Yes. It features scenarios like addressing poor performance, negotiating promotions, and managing interteam conflicts. For instance, a manager learns to frame feedback constructively using the “Compassion-Clarity” method, balancing honesty with empathy.

How does *Can We Talk?* help leaders retain talent?

By teaching leaders to create psychologically safe environments, the book reduces turnover. For example, it advises using “curiosity” to uncover employee concerns and “compromise” to align goals. Saxbys’ CEO credits the strategies for aligning their “Communicate Openly” core value.

What are common criticisms of *Can We Talk?*?

Some reviewers note the principles are broadly applicable but lack industry-specific adaptations. Others suggest adding more case studies on remote-team communication. However, the actionable scripts and focus on mutual engagement are widely praised.

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Can We Talk?

Roberta Chinsky Matuson

3.84 (62 Reviews)

Communication skill Relationship Leadership Business

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"Can We Talk?" unveils seven essential principles for navigating workplace's toughest conversations. Independent Press Award winner that transforms how leaders communicate. Marshall Goldsmith calls it "solid insights and practical advice" - because the courage to speak up might just save your career.

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Can We Talk?

Roberta Chinsky Matuson

3.84 (62 Reviews)

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Those three words-"Can we talk?"-can instantly trigger anxiety in even the most seasoned professionals. For many, they signal the beginning of an uncomfortable confrontation rather than a productive dialogue. Yet difficult conversations remain unavoidable in workplaces worldwide, with a staggering 70 percent of employees actively avoiding them with bosses, colleagues, and direct reports. This avoidance is costly-each conversation failure costs organizations approximately $7,500 and more than seven workdays of productivity, leading to declining engagement, eroding trust, and skyrocketing workplace stress. What if these dreaded interactions could become opportunities for growth instead of sources of anxiety? The key lies in mastering seven core principles: Confidence, Clarity, Compassion, Curiosity, Compromise, Credibility, and Courage. Together, they create a framework for transforming difficult conversations into productive exchanges that strengthen relationships rather than damage them. Whether you're delivering tough feedback, negotiating for resources, or addressing conflict, these principles offer a roadmap for conversations that produce results while preserving-and often enhancing-workplace relationships.

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117

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@Jaded_Falcon

201

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@Leo, Law Student, UPenn

483

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@Cashflowbubu

"Instead of endless scrolling, I just hit play on BeFreed. It saves me so much time."

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117

"Perfect balance between learning and entertainment. Finished ‘Thinking, Fast and Slow’ on my commute this week."

@Raaaaaachelw

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@Matt, YC alum

108

"Reading used to feel like a chore. Now it’s just part of my lifestyle."

@Erin, Investment Banking Associate , NYC

254

"Feels effortless compared to reading. I’ve finished 6 books this month already."

@djmikemoore

"BeFreed turned my guilty doomscrolling into something that feels productive and inspiring."

@Pitiful

4.5K

"BeFreed turned my commute into learning time. 20-min podcasts are perfect for finishing books I never had time for."

@SofiaP

"BeFreed replaced my podcast queue. Imagine Spotify for books — that’s it. 🙌"

@Jaded_Falcon

201

"It is great for me to learn something from the book without reading it."

@OojasSalunke

"The themed book list podcasts help me connect ideas across authors—like a guided audio journey."

@Leo, Law Student, UPenn

483

"Makes me feel smarter every time before going to work"

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Compromise and Credibility: Building Trust Through Actions

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When "Can We Talk" Becomes an Opportunity, Not a Threat

Building Self-Trust and Clarity: The Foundation of Effective Conversations

Compassion and Curiosity: The Heart of Connection

Compromise and Credibility: Building Trust Through Actions

Courage: Taking the Leap When It Matters Most