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The Social Blueprint Within Us
Have you ever wondered why humans, despite our vast cultural differences, form remarkably similar social structures across the globe? Why do we consistently fall in love, make friends, cooperate with strangers, and organize into hierarchies-regardless of whether we live in New York or New Guinea? Nicholas Christakis's "Blueprint" offers a revolutionary perspective on this question, arguing that we carry within our genes an evolutionary blueprint for creating good societies. The book has garnered praise from intellectual heavyweights like Steven Pinker and Jonathan Haidt, who call it "vitally important" for understanding human nature. Since its publication, it has influenced fields from sociology to evolutionary psychology, appearing on Bill Gates's recommended reading list and reshaping how we understand our shared humanity. At a time when political and cultural divisions dominate headlines, Christakis's work reminds us that beneath our differences lies a profound biological unity-one that has been millions of years in the making.
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Our Genetic Social Suite
Humans are fundamentally social creatures, carrying within us a genetic blueprint for making good societies. This blueprint manifests as what Christakis calls the "social suite"-eight core features found in all human societies: (1) individual identity recognition, (2) love for partners and offspring, (3) friendship, (4) social networks with particular structures, (5) cooperation, (6) preference for one's own group, (7) mild hierarchy, and (8) social learning and teaching.
These features aren't merely cultural inventions but biological adaptations shaped by natural selection over millions of years. While we often focus on the differences between human societies-their languages, religions, or political systems-these differences exist against a backdrop of profound similarity in our social organization. The universality of these traits suggests they're written in our genes, providing guidelines for how we organize ourselves.
This perspective challenges both extreme cultural relativism and genetic determinism. Our genes don't dictate exactly how we must live, but they do create parameters within which human societies naturally form. The social suite represents a kind of bounded flexibility-we have freedom to create diverse cultures, but that freedom operates within constraints established by our evolutionary history.
What's particularly fascinating is that these social tendencies emerge spontaneously, even among children. When Christakis observed children at play in Turkey, they quickly organized themselves into groups, established hierarchies, engaged in competition, and developed simple economic exchanges-all without adult guidance. This pattern repeats across cultures, suggesting these behaviors aren't learned but innate, emerging naturally as part of human development.
The social suite explains why, despite our capacity for cruelty and conflict, human societies consistently develop cooperation, friendship, and care for others. These prosocial tendencies aren't just nice to have-they're essential adaptations that enabled our ancestors to survive and thrive through collective action. Our genes guide us to create social environments that, in turn, favor genes promoting prosocial behavior-a feedback loop that has shaped human evolution for millennia.
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Natural Experiments in Human Society
Throughout history, shipwrecks have created unintentional "natural experiments" in human social organization. When people are stranded in remote locations, they must build societies from scratch, revealing fascinating patterns about our social nature.
Consider the remarkable case that occurred in 1864 on Auckland Island, where two ships wrecked simultaneously on opposite sides of the same island, creating a perfect natural experiment. The Invercauld's nineteen survivors quickly splintered into competing groups, abandoned weaker members, and even resorted to cannibalism. Only three survived their year-long ordeal. Meanwhile, all five crew members of the Grafton, which wrecked just four months earlier, survived their nearly two-year isolation through exceptional cooperation.
What made the difference? The Grafton crew established a democratic social structure, electing Captain Musgrave as their "chief of family." They built a substantial cabin with a stone chimney, created a forge to make tools, and even manufactured concrete from seashells. Most importantly, they maintained strong social bonds-teaching each other languages and mathematics while caring for each other during illness. When Musgrave fell ill, his crewmate Raynal recognized that any death would severely impact group morale, demonstrating their understanding of social cohesion's importance.
Other shipwreck cases reveal similar patterns. The most successful survivor communities consistently manifested key elements of the social suite: mild hierarchy with effective leadership, friendship among survivors, and evidence of cooperation and altruism. The Doddington (1755) survivors demonstrated remarkable cooperation during their seven months on Bird Island, working together to salvage supplies, build watercraft, and eventually construct a sloop named Happy Deliverance.
Contrast these successes with the notorious case of Pitcairn Island, where Fletcher Christian and eight other Bounty mutineers deliberately established an isolated community in 1789. Despite ideal environmental conditions, their society quickly descended into violence and dysfunction. The fundamental instability stemmed from their social structure: decisions were made only by European men, there was no legal code or central authority, and they excluded the Tahitian men from land ownership while forcing them to share just three women. The result was "a state of pure anarchy" with seven years of brutal violence until only one adult man remained alive.
Perhaps the most inspiring example comes from Ernest Shackleton's 1914 Antarctic expedition. When their ship Endurance became trapped in ice, Shackleton established clear authority, mandated equal food distribution, and maintained strict schedules. Despite their 513-day ordeal, all twenty-eight men survived. Most striking was their dedication to organized entertainment-soccer matches, theatrical productions, concerts, and even a "Dog Derby" with betting using chocolate and cigarettes as currency. These activities maintained morale and social bonds in extreme conditions.
These natural experiments demonstrate that while complete equality isn't necessary for group survival, friendship, cooperation, and equitable resource distribution are essential. Groups that successfully manifested the social suite fared significantly better than those that didn't. Equally notable is what we don't see: even when isolated, people don't invent entirely new forms of effective social order. Our evolutionary blueprint constrains and guides our social organization, allowing freedom only within its parameters.
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The Persistent Pattern of Intentional Communities
Throughout history, idealists have attempted to create perfect societies by deliberately designing new social structures. America has been particularly fertile ground for such experiments, with thousands of intentional communities established since 1780. These communities typically flourish during periods of social disruption, appealing especially to young adults questioning societal norms.
Brook Farm (1841-1847) represents one of the most intellectually significant American utopian experiments. Founded by Transcendentalists, it attracted luminaries like Ralph Waldo Emerson and Margaret Fuller. The community emphasized progressive education and balanced community with individuality. Unlike other utopian experiments, Brook Farm didn't require abandoning nuclear families or outside connections. Its downfall began when it adopted Charles Fourier's rigid doctrines, creating internal factions. When their newly-built communal building burned down in 1846, the community couldn't recover.
The Shakers became America's most successful and enduring intentional community. Founded by "Mother" Ann Lee, they practiced absolute celibacy, communal property, pacifism, and gender equality. Their social structure featured "families" led by two male and two female Elders, emphasizing order and harmony while still valuing individual autonomy. Though romantic relationships were forbidden-men and women couldn't even pass on stairs-the Shakers formed deep personal bonds. Their communes were remarkably productive economically, performing as well as or better than similar non-communal enterprises. However, celibacy meant they couldn't reproduce their community naturally, and by 1900 their numbers had dwindled from a peak of 3,608 in 1840.
Israeli kibbutzim provide another instructive example. These communities gradually abandoned their most radical social experiments. The collective child-rearing system, where children lived separately from parents, eventually failed. Despite producing more socially skilled children, the system created an unexpected "Westermarck effect" where children raised together developed aversions to sexual contact with one another. Similarly, kibbutzim abandoned communal dining, laundries, and equal economic sharing. By 2004, only 15% maintained full equal sharing.
Urban communes of the 1960s-70s faced similar challenges. Despite idealistic beginnings, most struggled with high turnover-only one-third of residents remained after two years. Contrary to stereotypes, commune membership actually decreased drug use, sexual promiscuity, and radical political activity. Group cohesion depended on both shared ideology and social structure, with moral understanding proving especially crucial.
Even in isolated scientific communities like Antarctic research stations, familiar social patterns emerge. Network analysis reveals how winter-over crews develop distinctive social structures-some cohesive, others fragmented into cliques. These networks demonstrate how groups need both instrumental leaders (task-focused) and expressive leaders (solidarity-builders).
The consistent pattern across these diverse communities reveals something profound: successful intentional communities respect the social suite while balancing group identity with individuality. Communities like Brook Farm and the Shakers acknowledged human uniqueness rather than treating people as interchangeable parts. Efforts to subvert marriage and redirect attachment toward the collective-whether through complete sexual freedom or total abstinence-typically failed by opposing our innate drive for pair bonding. Even well-designed communities face dual challenges: intrinsic biological pressures (our social blueprint) and extrinsic environmental factors. This demonstrates how difficult it is to create social structures that deviate from our evolutionary inheritance.
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Artificial Societies Reveal Natural Patterns
Modern technology has enabled researchers to create controlled experimental societies that overcome the limitations of natural experiments. Using platforms like Amazon's Mechanical Turk, scientists can assemble temporary artificial communities with precisely controlled variables-from network structure to resource distribution.
In one key experiment with 785 people in 40 groups, researchers tested public goods cooperation by giving participants real money they could either keep or donate to neighbors (with donations doubled). When people were trapped in rigid social networks with assigned connections, cooperation collapsed as defectors exploited others. However, when participants could choose their connections-forming ties with cooperators and breaking ties with defectors-cooperation flourished and cooperative people formed supportive cliques. This demonstrated how social fluidity fundamentally shapes community outcomes.
Massive multiplayer online games offer another window into de novo societies. Games like World of Warcraft, with over five million monthly players, show how humans naturally organize. Players form "guilds" averaging 17 members-remarkably similar to shipwreck parties or communes-to accomplish tasks together. These guilds follow predictable social patterns: larger groups last longer, modest hierarchies improve stability, and densely connected social networks enhance longevity.
Despite the virtual environment, players develop meaningful relationships, with many reporting an average of seven "good friends" whom half consider comparable to real-life relationships. Even in digital worlds, we carry our social instincts with us-racial stereotypes persist (dark-skinned avatars receive less help), gender norms remain (male avatars maintain greater interpersonal distance), and friendship networks mirror real-world patterns. The online world's freedom doesn't lead to novel social structures; instead, players recreate fundamental human social behaviors.
These findings suggest we could theoretically arrange all possible social systems on a multidimensional grid-a social morphospace. Key axes might include group size (where real societies cluster around Dunbar's number of 150 meaningful relationships), cooperativeness (typically about 65% in human societies), and network structure (measuring connection patterns or resource distribution). Placing all known societies into such a grid would reveal that only a tiny fraction of theoretically possible social arrangements have ever existed.
This pattern suggests fundamental constraints on social organization that consistently produce the features of the social suite. Not everything universal stems from genetics, and conversely, cultural diversity can result from our innate capacity for flexible environmental response. As evolutionary psychologists suggest, humans might be like jukeboxes programmed to play different songs in different settings, yet following predictable patterns. Importantly, all humans share one critical environmental constant: other humans. Since our greatest threat has always been other people rather than predators or natural hazards, we've evolved similar social adaptations worldwide.
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Love and Pair-Bonding Across Cultures
Beneath the tremendous variation in human marital unions-including monogamy, polygyny, polyandry, and same-sex marriages-lies something truly universal: a special emotional connection between sexual partners. This connection is rooted in our evolutionary past and our capacity for romantic love.
Our mating strategies have evolved over time: our hominid ancestors like Australopithecus were likely polygynous (evidenced by male-female size differences), but early Homo sapiens hunter-gatherers practiced relative monogamy in their egalitarian societies. With the agricultural revolution and rise of nation-states came increased inequality and a return to polygyny, before monogamy reemerged as the dominant norm in recent millennia.
From a global, historical perspective, monogamy is not the default human arrangement-roughly 85 percent of human societies have permitted polygyny at some point. Monogamy laws became widespread partly because even modest polygyny deprives many men of partners. In a society with substantial status differences, if the top men take multiple wives, many men might remain unmarried while women must share their husbands. This creates social instability, as unmarried men tend toward violence and risk-taking.
The Hadza hunter-gatherers of Tanzania practice monogamy as their norm, with only about 4 percent of men having two wives simultaneously. Sexual jealousy is strong in both sexes, with 38 percent of men saying they would try to kill a rival. Better hunters can marry younger women and have greater reproductive success, though they don't necessarily have more wives. When women are pregnant or nursing, men increase their food contribution-during these vulnerable periods, men provide 69 percent of family calories.
Five hundred miles north, the Turkana of Kenya practice polygyny within a more rigid economic system. Their pastoral lifestyle demands enormous labor to manage herds in the harsh environment. The marriage process requires a substantial bride-price of up to 150 livestock, creating a web of obligations that strengthen social bonds. This system creates problems for many men-about 30% emigrate from traditional pastoral life, 8% die before marrying, and some never marry because they must wait for older brothers to marry first.
While polygyny is common in some societies, its rarer counterpart is polyandry-more than one husband per wife. Typically found in the Himalayas, polyandry usually involves brothers marrying the same woman and often emerges in specific ecological situations where household maintenance requires multiple men.
Some cultures, particularly across Amazonia, believe in "partible paternity"-the concept that a single child can have multiple biological fathers. Evidence from the Ache of Paraguay shows children with multiple recognized fathers had higher survival rates (85% versus 70% for single-father children).
Perhaps most unusual are the Na people of the Himalayas, who avoid formal marriage altogether. In this matrilineal society, men visit women at night but return to their maternal homes by morning. Yet even the Na cannot fully eradicate fundamental human desires for both love and possession. Some Na couples, "carried away by the burning fire of their love," run away together to possess each other completely.
In many countries like China, India, and Indonesia, arranged marriages are common. While romantic love before marriage is often viewed as impractical, love after marriage is seen as natural and desired. Studies show that satisfaction in arranged marriages is sometimes even higher than in love matches after several years.
Even with cultural and ecological forces shaping marital unions differently across societies, the pair-bond between sexual partners remains a core feature of human relationships. This special attachment to one's mate, which humans experience as love, appears universal across cultures with all marriage types.
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The Biology of Friendship and Social Networks
Human friendship can inspire extraordinary sacrifice, as demonstrated by cases where people have given their lives to protect friends from danger. While evolutionary explanations easily account for sacrifices made for kin, the willingness to die for unrelated friends is more difficult to explain yet powerfully demonstrates friendship's profound importance in human life.
Friendship transcends simple tit-for-tat exchanges. People willingly endure pain nearly as long for friends (123 seconds) as for immediate family (132 seconds), showing friendship's powerful bond. The true test of friendship worldwide is giving without expectation of return-explicit demands for reciprocity signal the absence of friendship.
Tooby and Cosmides propose that friendship evolved as a solution to the "banker's paradox"-when people most need help, others might be least likely to offer it fearing no repayment. Our hunter-gatherer ancestors faced constant threats requiring assistance, yet selection would favor deserting those in greatest need. The solution? Developing devoted friendships with specific individuals, supported by emotional attachments that transcend strict accounting.
Genes significantly influence friendship formation and network structure. Comparing identical twins with fraternal twins, researchers found genetics explains 46% of variation in friend quantity and 47% in network transitivity-whether friends of friends become friends themselves. Remarkably, whether two people befriend each other can depend on a third person's genes, as some individuals naturally introduce their friends to one another.
Choosing similar friends has evolutionary rationale-someone who values what you do transforms the environment to benefit you as they benefit themselves. Friends resemble each other neurologically-brain scans show exceptionally similar responses to stimuli among friends. They also share genetic similarities, with the genetic similarity between friends roughly equaling that of fourth cousins.
When mapping human social networks, researchers consistently find Americans identify an average of 4.4 close social contacts, typically including a spouse, siblings, and close friends. These numbers remain remarkably stable across decades and cultures. The visual and mathematical structure of these networks shows striking similarity across cultures, from the United States to Tanzania and Sudan. Even modernized networks resemble those in forager societies, supporting their innate nature.
The capacity for friendship comes with a parallel capacity for enmity. In Honduras, researchers mapped antagonistic relationships in 176 villages, finding that animosity was much less common than friendship. People identified an average of 0.7 people they disliked compared to 4.3 friends, with 65% reporting no enemies at all. Unlike friendship, which was reciprocated 34% of the time, animosity was reciprocated only 5% of the time, suggesting people have more secret enemies than secret friends.
In-group bias is a cultural universal that emerges remarkably easily. Psychologist Henri Tajfel's minimal-group paradigm experiments showed that people favor their own group even when group assignments are completely arbitrary. This favoritism manifests in disturbing ways: people often prefer to maximize the difference in rewards between their group and others rather than maximizing absolute gains for their own group.
Yet importantly, it's possible to have positive feelings about one's own group without necessarily harboring negative feelings toward out-groups. Resources might be zero-sum, but attitudes need not be. Friendship and in-group bias are universal human traits with genetic foundations and consistent developmental patterns worldwide. These universal tendencies stem from our shared evolutionary past, though cultural factors shape specific friendship choices and group memberships.
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Convergent Evolution of Social Life
The similarities between humans and animals extend far beyond our bilateral symmetry and comparable organ systems. More surprisingly, the similarities extend to cognition and emotion. Dogs and rats demonstrate empathy, crows and wasps use tools, gorillas use language, and chimpanzees and elephants form friendships. These capabilities, while not identical to ours, reveal our continuity with the animal kingdom.
The social similarities between humans, whales, and elephants exemplify convergent evolution-the independent development of similar traits in distantly related species. Our last common ancestor with chimpanzees lived 6 million years ago, with whales 75 million years ago, and with elephants 85 million years ago. Since these common ancestors weren't social, each lineage independently evolved similar social strategies.
This phenomenon has occurred at least fifty times across different species, leading some scientists to suggest that certain evolutionary outcomes, like intelligence, might be inevitable rather than accidental. Once set on the path to being social, different species converge on similar plans because they adapt to the same environment-the presence of other members of their own species. This social environment travels with the species wherever they go, creating a feedback loop: social animals create a social milieu with features of the social suite, and natural selection then favors traits optimized for this environment.
Individual identity and recognition are rare but crucial abilities in the social animal world. Human faces show remarkable variability compared to other body parts-you can easily recognize friends from facial photos but not from pictures of hands or knees. For maximum distinctiveness, facial features evolved to be uncorrelated with each other, creating endless possible combinations. This facial diversity is supported by genetic evidence-genes coding for facial features show more variation than those for organs like the pancreas, where uniformity is preferable.
Individual recognition becomes especially valuable in species that practice non-kin cooperation. Without reliable identification, how could you remember who had been generous or who had cheated in the past? As social complexity increases, recognizing individuals becomes paramount for maintaining friendships, alliances, and hierarchies.
Social animals can recognize themselves in mirrors, a rare ability found only in the most social species. Mirror self-recognition develops in humans around 18-24 months of age and has been demonstrated in great apes, elephants, and dolphins. This self-recognition appears to require early social exposure; chimpanzees raised in isolation generally fail to develop it. The ability to recognize oneself as distinct from others paradoxically requires social interaction to develop.
Grief provides another window into animal identity and individuality. Like humans, nonhuman primates and elephants grieve specifically for individuals they were close to, not for strangers-evidence they recognize others as unique beings. Elephants spend hours examining the remains of deceased herd members, turning skulls and bones over with apparent focus and silence, suggesting conscious thoughts and memories.
Cooperation appears throughout the animal kingdom, particularly among primates. In classic experiments, chimpanzees successfully coordinated to pull a rope together to retrieve food-a task impossible for one chimp alone. Elephants quickly learned similar cooperation tasks and would wait for partners before pulling. Some elephants even developed clever strategies, like one female who stepped on her rope rather than pulling, forcing her partner to do the work.
The ability to network, cooperate, and learn socially enables another element of the social suite: culture. Long-term studies of six chimpanzee populations across Africa revealed thirty-nine distinct behaviors-from tool use to grooming practices-that were customary in some groups but absent in others. Researchers have even observed new innovations emerge and spread along social connections, like a dominant male creating a moss sponge for drinking, which quickly spread to seven other chimps in his group.
These examples demonstrate that many animals possess not just isolated traditions but true culture-constellations of learned behaviors transmitted socially across generations. Humans share several aspects of the social suite with other social animals beyond pair-bonding and friendship. Our similarities to animal societies highlight fundamental traits essential to human social structure. Paradoxically, when we resemble other animals in aspects of the social suite, it binds humans together-the more we resemble these animals, the more alike we humans must be to one another.
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The Interplay of Genes and Culture
Human survival across diverse habitats from Arctic tundra to African deserts depends less on physiological adaptations than on our capacity for culture. This capacity has led to inventions like kayaks and parkas that enable our species to thrive in environments where we couldn't survive through biological adaptation alone.
Culture is defined as information that affects behavior, acquired through social transmission from other members of our species. It's fundamentally interpersonal-a property of groups, not individuals. Our pre-wired inclination to produce culture reflects evolved proclivities for social interaction, cooperation, and learning.
Culture doesn't just shape behavior during our lifetimes-it actually affects the genes we carry as a species. This interaction, called gene-culture coevolution or dual-inheritance theory, has three key elements. First, our capacity to create culture is itself an adaptation shaped by natural selection. Second, culture itself evolves following logic similar to natural selection, with superior ideas outperforming weaker ones. Third, our cultural system becomes part of our evolutionary landscape, exerting selective pressure on our genes.
The interaction between genetic and cultural inheritance is dramatically illustrated by several examples. The Sama-Bajau sea nomads, who have lived on houseboats for at least a thousand years, evolved genetic mutations giving them larger spleens that function as reservoirs of oxygenated red blood cells during their five-hour daily diving sessions. This adaptation allows them to dive to seventy meters with minimal equipment.
Similarly, Polynesian seafarers developed "thrifty genes" to cope with starvation during long voyages and island living-adaptations that now predispose their descendants to diabetes and obesity in modern food environments. Other examples abound: speakers of tonal languages may have selected for brain-structure gene variants; agriculture likely selected for patience-related genes and amylase enzymes for starch digestion; and urban living has driven selection for typhoid resistance.
Modern analyses suggest that several hundred of our roughly twenty thousand genes have been evolving at an accelerated rate over the past ten to forty thousand years in response to major cultural innovations like animal husbandry, urbanization, and marriage rules. These genetic changes are remarkably recent, occurring over mere millennia.
As human culture grows more complex and populations increase, culture-driven selection pressure intensifies. Paradoxically, however, our cultural adaptations can simultaneously decrease selection pressure from natural environmental factors. When humans develop cultural solutions like clothing, buildings, or air conditioning to buffer environmental challenges, they reduce the selective force of those challenges.
Culture can actually preserve genetic vulnerabilities that natural selection would otherwise eliminate. Eyeglasses allow myopic individuals to survive and reproduce, potentially increasing nearsightedness in the population. More dramatically, medical advances have extended the lifespan of sickle-cell disease patients from teens to over forty years, enabling them to have families and pass on their genes.
From a scientific perspective, gene-culture coevolution offers a unifying framework that brings social and biological analyses together. The nature-versus-nurture debate dissolves into a simple "yes"-both are inextricably linked in human evolution. Once cultural transmission became possible, our species developed brains capable of learning, teaching, respecting norms, and transmitting information. Human culture also cumulates, creating evolutionary pressure for brains capable of handling increasing complexity.
Capitolo 10
Our Common Humanity in a Divided World
Despite worldwide fear, ignorance, hatred, and violence, focusing solely on human differences misses our underlying unity. Evolutionary sociology reveals humans are pre-wired for societies built on love, friendship, cooperation, and learning.
Understanding our social blueprint becomes crucial as we face radical technologies that grant unprecedented powers to reshape our social world. Artificial intelligence differs from previous inventions by potentially specifying its own ends rather than serving human-directed purposes. AI creates "hybrid systems" where machines interact with us as equals, modifying human behavior. Similarly, CRISPR gene-editing allows humans to direct evolution through nonrandom mutation and unnatural selection. While initial applications may prevent genetic diseases, the technology could eventually modify traits like empathy or friendliness, potentially transforming social systems.
The argument for natural morality suggests that understanding what it means to be human allows us to judge human experiences as good or bad. Just as we can evaluate a clock by how well it tells time, we can evaluate human experience by how well it fulfills our nature. Human virtues like kindness and bravery are "natural excellences" while their opposites are "natural defects." Morality relates to making a good society that enables us to be fully human.
What explains our success living together despite our flaws? While theology asks how God can be justified amid evil (theodicy), we might consider "sociodicy"-vindicating confidence in society's virtue despite its failures. This isn't mere optimism but recognition of fundamental human goodness.
Though human history contains misery and the Enlightenment brought dramatic improvements in longevity, wealth, freedom, and peace, more ancient evolutionary forces propel good society. Humans have always had both competitive and cooperative impulses intertwined like DNA's double helix-modern civilization is merely a patina atop this evolutionary blueprint.
Viewing historical forces as more important than evolutionary ones makes human society seem more fragile and might tempt us to believe good social order is unnatural. We should be humble about engineering society against our instincts, as the good things around us are inherent to our humanity. "The arc of our evolutionary history is long. But it bends toward goodness."
