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    When You Love Too Much: Attachment Science

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    Explore the psychology behind intense romantic feelings and why some people experience love like a tidal wave. Discover how attachment styles shape our capacity for deep connection.

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    The goal isn't to feel less—it's to learn to love more skillfully. You don't have to fix your capacity for deep feeling, you just need to develop the tools to manage the intensity without losing yourself.

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    Opening & Welcome

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    Topic Introduction & Source Material Setup

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    1:43
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    The Science Behind Intense Love

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    2:12
    2:26
    2:44
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    4

    Understanding Emotional Dysregulation in Love

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    3:25
    3:42
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    The Anxious-Avoidant Dance and Intensity

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    Practical Applications & Listener Takeaways

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    3:25
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    Wrap-up & Closing Reflection

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