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    Am I Gay? Crossdressing and Sexual Identity

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    Hosts explore the psychological confusion around crossdressing and sexuality, debunking myths with research showing most male crossdressers identify as heterosexual, bisexual, or other orientations—not gay.

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    Gender expression and sexual attraction operate on completely different psychological pathways. When someone puts on clothes that make them feel good, that's about identity, comfort, or artistic expression—it's not about who they want to sleep with.

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