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Unrequited: Women and Romantic Obsession
Lisa A. Phillips
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Overview of Unrequited: Women and Romantic Obsession

Unrequited love drives women to obsession - Lisa Phillips courageously explores this taboo through personal stories and cultural analysis. Featured in Psychology Today and NPR, this book validates the silent suffering millions experience. What dangerous line separates devotion from destruction?

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What drives a rational person to show up at someone's door before sunrise, uninvited and unwanted? This isn't a hypothetical question-it's a confession. That November morning, slipping past security and knocking persistently until he answered, baseball bat in hand, marked the moment of reckoning. The fear in his eyes wasn't just about an unwelcome visitor; it reflected back a stranger I'd become: the desperate woman who couldn't let go. This raw admission opens a larger truth about unrequited love that affects nearly all of us. Research reveals that 93 percent of people experience one-sided love at some point, yet we rarely discuss it honestly. Instead, we judge women who pursue unavailable partners far more harshly than men doing the same. While John Cusack holding a boombox outside his beloved's window becomes iconic cinema, women in similar positions become cautionary tales-pitiful neurotics or dangerous "bunny boilers." This double standard runs deep, from Hollywood to everyday conversations, revealing our profound discomfort with female desire and aggression. Yet within this painful experience lies unexpected potential for transformation, creativity, and self-discovery.

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When Persistence Becomes Delusion

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When Pursuit Crosses Into Dangerous Territory

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The Developmental Value of Unrequited Love

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