Harriet Lerner
Nacido: November 30, 1944 – Brooklyn, New York, United States
Harriet Lerner is a clinical psychologist and author whose work centers on women’s psychology, family systems, anger, apology, and intimate relationships. She is best known for The Dance of Anger and books including The Dance of Connection and Why Won’t You Apologize?; The Dance of Anger became a long-running bestseller and sold millions of copies.
Biografía y Trayectoria del Autor
Harriet Lerner grew up in Brooklyn in a household that linked learning, culture, and therapy. She has said that her mother’s belief in therapy helped fix her ambition early; before finishing kindergarten, she had already decided to become a psychologist. She studied psychology and East Indian studies at the University of Wisconsin–Madison, spent a junior year doing research in Delhi, earned an M.A. from Teachers College, Columbia University, and completed a Ph.D. in clinical psychology at the City University of New York. After internship training at Mount Zion Hospital in San Francisco, she moved to Topeka in 1972 for postdoctoral work at the Menninger Foundation and remained there for more than two decades as a teacher, supervisor, and clinician. ((https://www.harrietlerner.com/about?utm_source=openai))
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Heal shame & master conflicts
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Love, Psychology & Relational Wellness
Love, Psychology & Relational Wellness
This learning plan bridges the gap between psychological theory and practical relational skills, making it essential for anyone seeking more secure and fulfilling connections. It is ideal for individuals or couples looking to break unhealthy cycles, improve communication, and build a foundation for lasting intimacy.
Psychology, History, Desire & Relationships
Psychology, History, Desire & Relationships
This learning plan bridges the gap between scientific theory and interpersonal success, offering a deep dive into why we think and love the way we do. It is ideal for individuals seeking to improve their emotional intelligence and anyone interested in the biological and psychological mechanics of human connection.
Release anger from past misunderstandings
Release anger from past misunderstandings
This plan is designed for individuals feeling weighed down by long-standing grudges or recurring conflicts rooted in past miscommunications. It provides a holistic path for anyone seeking to transition from reactive anger to proactive emotional clarity and interpersonal connection.
Explore Creativity, Love & Communication
Explore Creativity, Love & Communication
This learning plan is designed for individuals seeking to harmonize their personal expression with their interpersonal success. It provides a unique blend of neurobiology and social psychology to help professionals and partners build more resilient, imaginative, and emotionally intelligent lives.
Love, Relationships, Parenting & Leadership
Love, Relationships, Parenting & Leadership
This learning plan bridges the gap between personal psychology and professional excellence by centering on the power of emotional intelligence. It is ideal for individuals seeking to harmonize their roles as partners, parents, and professional leaders through science-backed connection strategies.
How to best tap into my wife’s psyche
How to best tap into my wife’s psyche
This plan is designed for partners who want to move beyond surface-level interactions and truly understand their wife's internal experience. It combines psychological theory with practical communication tools to help men build a more resilient and intimate marriage.
Voces de la Comunidad
"Harriet Lerner pioneers on behalf of women’s whole humanity"
— Gloria Steinem
"I love Harriet Lerner’s work!"
— Anne Lamott
"With her signature punch and humor, Harriet Lerner tackles the injuries that occur in marriage, family and friendship"
— Janis Abrahms Spring
"If you want to know why Harriet Lerner is one of my great heroes, Why Won’t You Apologize? is the answer"
— Brené Brown
"Harriet Lerner ... is a serious writer with a gift for translating scholarly ideas into books that hit a nerve with lay audiences"
— SFGATE
"With accessible language, luminous examples, and clinical nuance, Harriet Lerner shows us the value and power of apologies"
— Harville Hendrix & Helen LaKelly Hunt
"Harriet Lerner is one hell of a wise woman"
— Esther Perel
"Harriet Lerner has written a valuable guide for both those who deserve an apology and those who owe one"
— John Kador
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Creado por exalumnos de la Universidad de Columbia en San Francisco
"Instead of endless scrolling, I just hit play on BeFreed. It saves me so much time."
"I never knew where to start with nonfiction—BeFreed’s book lists turned into podcasts gave me a clear path."
"Perfect balance between learning and entertainment. Finished ‘Thinking, Fast and Slow’ on my commute this week."
"Crazy how much I learned while walking the dog. BeFreed = small habits → big gains."
"Reading used to feel like a chore. Now it’s just part of my lifestyle."
"Feels effortless compared to reading. I’ve finished 6 books this month already."
"BeFreed turned my guilty doomscrolling into something that feels productive and inspiring."
"BeFreed turned my commute into learning time. 20-min podcasts are perfect for finishing books I never had time for."
"BeFreed replaced my podcast queue. Imagine Spotify for books — that’s it. 🙌"
"It is great for me to learn something from the book without reading it."
"The themed book list podcasts help me connect ideas across authors—like a guided audio journey."
"Makes me feel smarter every time before going to work"
"Instead of endless scrolling, I just hit play on BeFreed. It saves me so much time."
"I never knew where to start with nonfiction—BeFreed’s book lists turned into podcasts gave me a clear path."
"Perfect balance between learning and entertainment. Finished ‘Thinking, Fast and Slow’ on my commute this week."
"Crazy how much I learned while walking the dog. BeFreed = small habits → big gains."
"Reading used to feel like a chore. Now it’s just part of my lifestyle."
"Feels effortless compared to reading. I’ve finished 6 books this month already."
"BeFreed turned my guilty doomscrolling into something that feels productive and inspiring."
"BeFreed turned my commute into learning time. 20-min podcasts are perfect for finishing books I never had time for."
"BeFreed replaced my podcast queue. Imagine Spotify for books — that’s it. 🙌"
"It is great for me to learn something from the book without reading it."
"The themed book list podcasts help me connect ideas across authors—like a guided audio journey."
"Makes me feel smarter every time before going to work"
"Instead of endless scrolling, I just hit play on BeFreed. It saves me so much time."
"I never knew where to start with nonfiction—BeFreed’s book lists turned into podcasts gave me a clear path."
"Perfect balance between learning and entertainment. Finished ‘Thinking, Fast and Slow’ on my commute this week."
"Crazy how much I learned while walking the dog. BeFreed = small habits → big gains."
"Reading used to feel like a chore. Now it’s just part of my lifestyle."
"Feels effortless compared to reading. I’ve finished 6 books this month already."
"BeFreed turned my guilty doomscrolling into something that feels productive and inspiring."
"BeFreed turned my commute into learning time. 20-min podcasts are perfect for finishing books I never had time for."
"BeFreed replaced my podcast queue. Imagine Spotify for books — that’s it. 🙌"
"It is great for me to learn something from the book without reading it."
"The themed book list podcasts help me connect ideas across authors—like a guided audio journey."
"Makes me feel smarter every time before going to work"
