Urban Tantra
Sacred Sex for the Twenty-First Century
Overview of Urban Tantra
Urban Tantra revolutionizes intimacy by blending ancient practices with modern urban life. Celebrating its 10th anniversary with an expanded edition, this guide offers 100+ techniques for mind-blowing orgasmic states. What sexual wisdom awaits when spirituality meets inclusive pleasure across all orientations?
Key Themes in Urban Tantra
- sacred sexuality
- ecstatic meditation
- conscious kink
- inclusive tantra
- embodied spirituality
Quotes from Urban Tantra
Ecstasy is medically necessary for human health.
Tantra isn't exclusively about sex.
Our minds can be our most powerful allies or worst enemies.
Energy follows thought.
Every thought creates your future.
Characters in Urban Tantra
- Barbara CarrellasAuthor and founder of the Urban Tantra approach
- Betty DodsonSex educator who praised the book's methods
- Carol QueenSex educator and advocate for radical exploration
- Wilhelm ReichPsychologist who studied the necessity of ecstasy
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FAQs About This Book
Urban Tantra reimagines ancient Tantra for modern life, blending erotic techniques with spiritual practices to deepen intimacy and pleasure. It offers over 100 exercises—from breathwork to energy orgasms—that cater to all genders, orientations, and desires, emphasizing mindfulness and the sacredness of sexuality as a path to personal transformation.
This book is ideal for anyone exploring sexuality, spirituality, or conscious intimacy, including LGBTQ+ communities, kink/BDSM practitioners, and those seeking healing through erotic energy. It’s especially valuable for urban dwellers wanting practical, non-dogmatic tools to enhance solo or partnered experiences.
Yes—readers praise its inclusive, accessible approach to Tantra, with actionable exercises and queer-friendly perspectives. Critics note some oversimplification of traditional practices, but most agree it’s a groundbreaking guide for modern sexual explorers.
Core practices include:
- Conscious breathing to amplify arousal and presence.
- Erotic Awakening Massage for energy circulation.
- Energy orgasms achievable without physical touch.
- Rituals blending BDSM and mindfulness.
Carrellas frames sex as a meditative practice, where pleasure becomes a gateway to self-discovery and connection. Techniques like eye-gazing and slow touch aim to merge erotic and spiritual ecstasy, fostering "sacred intimacy" beyond traditional Tantra’s heteronormative roots.
Some reviewers find its approach too secular or simplistic for seasoned Tantra practitioners. Others feel its inclusivity efforts occasionally feel forced, though most applaud its focus on consent, trauma sensitivity, and diverse erotic expressions.
While both advocate sexual freedom, Urban Tantra focuses on spiritual-technical practices (e.g., breathwork, energy play), whereas The Ethical Slut emphasizes polyamory and relational ethics. They complement each other for holistic erotic empowerment.
Yes—its mindfulness exercises, body-positive framing, and emphasis on consent provide tools to reclaim agency. Readers report success using rituals like "Healing Heart Meditation" to process past experiences safely.
A pioneer in queer-inclusive sex education, Carrellas merges performance art, bodywork, and Tantra. She founded Urban Tantra® to democratize sacred sexuality, prioritizing pleasure as a catalyst for personal and social change.
No—over a third of exercises are solo practices, such as self-massage and breath-based orgasms. Carrellas stresses that self-discovery is foundational for partnered play.
It reframes kink as sacred ritual when done consensually, advocating "conscious kink" where power exchange deepens spiritual connection. Techniques like sensation play are paired with Tantric breathing for heightened states.
Pleasure is a gateway to self-mastery: by staying present, embracing desire, and honoring the body, anyone can transform ordinary moments into ecstatic, spiritually-aligned experiences.
