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Taking Sexy Back by Alexandra H. Solomon Summary

Taking Sexy Back
Alexandra H. Solomon
4.14 (303 Reviews)
Relationship
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Overview of Taking Sexy Back

In "Taking Sexy Back," Dr. Alexandra Solomon challenges the "sexy but not sexual" paradox women face. This groundbreaking guide, praised for its timely #MeToo-era relevance, helps women reclaim authentic desire beyond societal expectations. One mother-daughter duo even read it together - sparking intergenerational healing about intimacy.

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When Your Sexuality Isn't Yours

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Picture scrolling through social media, bombarded by images of what "sexy" should look like-airbrushed bodies, performative intimacy, contradictory messages about being desirable yet modest, available yet not too eager. Now ask yourself: when was the last time you felt truly connected to your own sexual pleasure, rather than worrying about how you appear to someone else? This disconnect isn't personal failure-it's the inevitable result of living in a culture that teaches women their sexuality exists for others' consumption rather than their own joy. There's a revolutionary difference between being sexualized and being sexual. When you're sexualized, your body becomes a performance evaluated by an invisible audience. You're simultaneously told to be alluring but not demanding, to please your partner while your own pleasure remains optional, even fake-able. This outside-in approach positions women as passive recipients rather than active participants in their own erotic lives. The antidote? Flipping the script entirely-from outside-in to inside-out sexuality, where your pleasure, curiosity, and authentic desire become the starting point rather than the afterthought.

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Mapping Your Sexual Territory

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The Education We Never Received

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Your Pleasure Is Your Birthright

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