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David Schnarch

出生: November 16, 1946 – Baton Rouge, Louisiana, United States

David Schnarch was an American clinical psychologist and sex therapist known for applying differentiation theory to marriage and sexuality. He wrote Passionate Marriage, Intimacy & Desire, and Resurrecting Sex, and developed Crucible Therapy, influencing couples therapy and sex therapy through his clinical teaching, workshops, and widely read relationship books.

传记与作者历程

David Schnarch was an American clinical psychologist, certified sex therapist, and couples therapist whose work reshaped discussions of intimacy, desire, and long-term partnership. Born in the Bronx on September 18, 1946, he studied at New York University and later earned both his M.A. and Ph.D. at Michigan State. His early career included a visiting appointment at Indiana University and 17 years at Louisiana State University Medical School, where he rose to associate professor in psychiatry and urology. In 1995 he moved with his family to Evergreen, Colorado, and with his wife, psychologist Ruth Morehouse, founded the Marriage and Family Health Center. He died in Evergreen on October 8, 2020. ((https://www.crucible4points.com/therapists/dr-david-schnarch/))

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名言

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I got to watch the best in him stand up
-Happy Father's Day to Respectable Fathers
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Expecting unfailing support and constant validation kills sexual desire
-Do You Want Your Partner To Stroke Your Ego Or Your Genitals?
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Hold on to yourself if you want to hold on to your partner
-Decoding The Logic of Sexual Relationships
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Sexual novelty is always introduced unilaterally
-Sex and Self-Development Between The Sheets
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Mastering this anxiety is how you become a sexually mature adult
-People Have Sex Within The Limits of Their Development
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Sexual relationships always consist of 'leftovers.'
-Sexual Relationships Always Consist of 'Leftovers'
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Normal couples have sexual desire problems
-Normal Healthy Couples Have Sexual Desire Problems
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"a place where change happens."
-Removing The Masks
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Sexual intensity is more a function of emotional maturation than of physiological responsiveness
-Getting Older, Getting Better
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Assuming you're not totally crude or insensitive, a straightforward, unambiguous "no thanks" works best
-Saying 'No' Gracefully

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Psychology, Desire & Sexual Health

Psychology, Desire & Sexual Health

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Psychology, Desire & Sexual Health

This program bridges the gap between biological drives and emotional intimacy, offering a scientific framework for understanding desire. It is essential for individuals or professionals seeking to master the psychological foundations of sexual health and effective relationship communication.

4 h4 章节
Sexual Health, Pleasure & Relationships

Sexual Health, Pleasure & Relationships

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Sexual Health, Pleasure & Relationships

This comprehensive guide is designed for individuals and couples seeking to move beyond performance toward authentic intimacy. It bridges the gap between biological health and spiritual connection, making it ideal for anyone wanting to improve their relational communication and pleasure skills.

2 h 40 m4 章节
Sex, Health, Desire & Pleasure

Sex, Health, Desire & Pleasure

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Sex, Health, Desire & Pleasure

This comprehensive guide bridges the gap between clinical health and emotional fulfillment for anyone seeking a more vibrant intimate life. It is ideal for individuals or couples looking to replace shame with body literacy, effective communication, and mindful pleasure practices.

3 h 44 m4 章节
Psych, Sex Health & Behavior Science

Psych, Sex Health & Behavior Science

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Psych, Sex Health & Behavior Science

This plan bridges the gap between cognitive science and interpersonal dynamics to provide a holistic view of human nature. It is ideal for individuals seeking to improve their relationships and decision-making through a scientific lens.

3 h 53 m4 章节
Sex

Sex

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Sex

This plan bridges the gap between biological understanding and emotional connection to foster a healthier relationship with intimacy. It is ideal for individuals or couples seeking to move beyond basics toward a more mindful, communicative, and fulfilling sexual life.

2 h 23 m3 章节
Improve Sex Life

Improve Sex Life

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Improve Sex Life

This comprehensive guide is designed for individuals and couples looking to move beyond physical basics into a holistic understanding of intimacy. It is ideal for anyone seeking to overcome psychological barriers, master the science of pleasure, or revitalize desire in a long-term partnership.

2 h 27 m4 章节
Better self, marriage, and sex life

Better self, marriage, and sex life

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Better self, marriage, and sex life

This comprehensive plan is designed for individuals seeking to harmonize personal development with relational success. It is ideal for partners who want to move beyond surface-level interactions to achieve deep emotional and physical intimacy through evidence-based practices.

3 h 15 m4 章节
Mastering sex

Mastering sex

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Mastering sex

This plan is designed for individuals and couples seeking to deepen their physical and emotional connections. It bridges the gap between biological health, effective communication, and advanced intimacy techniques to foster a fulfilling sexual life.

2 h 25 m4 章节

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"David Schnarch offers the best answers to keeping a sexual relationship alive, intimate and passionate"

William Stayton

"Schnarch takes the reader behind the scenes as couples describe similar feelings and explicit sexual encounters"

Library Journal

"Once again, David Schnarch gives us a roadmap for understanding couples struggling with sexual desire"

William M. Pinsof

"Schnarch shows us that by achieving greater intimacy, we also achieve greater meaning in our lives"

Metapsychology Online Reviews

"Readers will be pleasantly surprised with psychologist and sex therapist Schnarch"

Publishers Weekly

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