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    24 февр. 2026 г.
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    Discover why self-forgiveness is harder than forgiving others and learn the science-backed Four R's method to break free from self-criticism and embrace genuine healing.

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    Self-compassion—not self-criticism—is what actually drives lasting behavioral change. When we approach our mistakes with curiosity instead of condemnation, we create space for genuine learning.

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    Release anger from past misunderstandings

    Release anger from past misunderstandings

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    Release anger from past misunderstandings

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    Move On Fast Without Hate or Desperation

    Move On Fast Without Hate or Desperation

    ПЛАН ОБУЧЕНИЯ

    Move On Fast Without Hate or Desperation

    4 h 25 m•4 Эпизоды

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    Your Worst Enemy Is You

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    0:45
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    Breaking Free from the Inner Critic's Prison

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    1:23
    1:29
    1:44
    1:51
    2:06
    2:16
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    The Science of Self-Compassion

    2:31
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    The Four R's of Genuine Self-Forgiveness

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    When Self-Forgiveness Gets Complicated

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    The Daily Practice of Self-Forgiveness

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