Exploring our complex relationship with the unexpected, from a couple's 68-year marriage experiment to the neuroscience behind why we both crave and fear surprises in our lives.
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Surprise acts like a highlighting marker for memory. When something violates our expectations, our brains essentially say, 'This is important—file this away for future reference.'
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