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    Jackson and Miles explore groundbreaking research revealing the contradictions in women's sexuality - from the disconnect between physical arousal and conscious desire to the paradox of wanting to be desired without being objectified.

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    The most radical thing you can do is define your own relationship with your sexuality and appearance. In a world that profits from women's insecurity and self-doubt, claiming your authentic desire is a radical act.

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    Источники знаний
    What Do Women Want?
    Taking Sexy Back
    Survival of the prettiest
    The beauty myth
    [PDF] Women Can Benefit From Sexual and Physical Valuation in the ...
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    The Evaluative Process Model of Objectification: how men's evaluations of patriarchal security and women's fit with conventional beauty and sexuality norms interact to predict perpetration of sexually objectifying behaviors
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    Opening & Setting the Stage

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    The Revolutionary Science of Female Desire

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    The Narcissistic Secret: Being Desired vs. Desiring

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    The Paradox of Submission Fantasies

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    The Cultural Construction of Beauty and Desire

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    The Context That Changes Everything

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    The Evaluative Process: Who Gets What Kind of Attention

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    Reclaiming Sexuality in a Complex World

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    Practical Applications & Listener Takeaways

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    Wrapping Up: The Complex Truth About Desire

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