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    Transform reactivity, disorganization, and financial secrecy into relationship strengths. Learn evidence-based techniques to work with your ADHD brain, break shame cycles, and build healing through awareness and kindness.

    Breaking ADHD Relationship Patterns with Self-Compassion

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    Shame thrives in secrecy but dissolves in empathy. When we can approach ourselves with the same compassion we'd show a good friend, everything shifts.

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    Help me heal patterns that hurt my relationship: reactivity, ADHD disorganization, and hiding debt. Guide me toward growth and self-compassion. Anxiet

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    Источники знаний
    The ADHD Effect on Marriage
    The Couples Guide to Thriving with ADHD
    A. D. D. and Romance
    Strategies to help couples affected by ADHD manage challenges and stay connected.
    link
    https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/on-your-way-with-adhd/202406/how-couples-with-adhd-can-reduce-conflict-and-get-along-better
    Emotional Regulation: 5 Evidence-Based Regulation Techniques
    link
    https://positivepsychology.com/emotion-regulation/
    Relationship Repair: A Couples Counselor's Guide to Rebuilding Trust
    link
    https://www.jancareytherapy.com/blog/relationships-are-really-about-repair

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    Opening & Welcome

    0:00
    0:10
    0:33
    2

    Topic Introduction & Source Material Setup

    0:44
    0:58
    1:13
    1:33
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    Understanding the ADHD-Relationship Connection

    1:48
    2:05
    2:11
    2:27
    2:37
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    3:01
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    3:31
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    2:37
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    Building Self-Compassion and Awareness

    5:17
    5:27
    5:32
    5:41
    2:37
    6:05
    3:31
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    Practical Applications & Listener Takeaways

    6:27
    6:32
    6:44
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