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    Autism in Girls: The Cost of Masking and Late Diagnosis

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    Explore the reality of autism in girls, the impact of masking, and why 80% of autistic females remain undiagnosed by age 18. Learn about the cost of late diagnosis.

    Autism in Girls: The Cost of Masking and Late Diagnosis

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    They aren't just 'blending in'; they’re often drowning in plain sight while people on the shore are complimenting them on how well they swim. It’s moving from 'I’m a failed neurotypical' to 'I’m a successful autistic person.'

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    How would autism present in women/girls? I got diagnosed at 13.

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    Источники знаний
    Diagnostic challenges of autism spectrum disorder in women without intellectual or language impairments: a narrative review - PMC
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    https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC12467426/
    Drowning, Not Waving: Autism in Women and Girls | Published in The Rehabilitation Professional
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    https://iarp-rehabpro.scholasticahq.com/article/122665-drowning-not-waving-autism-in-women-and-girls
    Diagnostic challenges of autism spectrum disorder in women without intellectual or language impairments: a narrative review
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    https://medandlife.org/wp-content/uploads/JML-2025-0118.pdf
    My Journey Of How I Found Out That I Am Autistic — Authentically Emily
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    https://www.authenticallyemily.uk/blog/my-journey-of-how-i-found-out-that-i-am-autistic
    Navigating life as a late-diagnosed autistic teen - Young Minds
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    https://www.youngminds.org.uk/young-person/blog/navigating-life-as-a-late-diagnosed-autistic-teen/
    The Struggles of a Teenage Girl With a Late Autism Diagnosis - Autism Parenting Magazine
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    https://www.autismparentingmagazine.com/struggles-teenage-girl-autism-diagnosis/

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    Late diagnosis is common because the medical understanding of autism was historically based primarily on boys. Many girls become experts at masking their traits to fit in, leading them to be mislabeled as simply shy or anxious. Research suggests that approximately eighty percent of autistic females remain undiagnosed by the time they reach eighteen, often carrying the weight of being different without knowing the underlying reason.

    Masking is a social survival strategy where autistic individuals hide their natural traits to blend into neurotypical environments. For many girls, this involves becoming world-class experts at mimicking social cues, which often leads to their autism being overlooked by professionals and educators. While masking helps them navigate social circles, it comes at a high personal cost and frequently results in a delayed or late diagnosis.

    Statistics indicate a significant gap in identification, with about eighty percent of autistic females remaining undiagnosed by the age of eighteen. Because the diagnostic criteria were largely written with boys as the main characters, many girls navigate their entire childhood feeling like they are carrying a heavy backpack of stones while others seem light on their feet. This lack of early recognition can lead to a life-changing realization much later in adulthood.

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