The Drama of the Gifted Child by Alice Miller Summary
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Discover why Alice Miller's groundbreaking exploration of childhood trauma has reshaped psychology since 1979. This international bestseller reveals how "gifted" children sacrifice authenticity to meet parents' needs - a revelation that continues to transform therapy, parenting, and our understanding of generational wounds.
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The Hidden Wounds Behind Achievement
Behind every "gifted child" often lies a profound emotional wound. These sensitive souls-praised for talents and accomplishments since infancy-frequently develop depression and emptiness despite outward success. Their achievements become shields against deeper feelings of anxiety and shame that emerge when their carefully constructed facade falters. What creates this painful paradox? The root lies in early childhood adaptation. When a child's fundamental needs for respect and emotional mirroring must be repressed to preserve parental love, they develop an inability to experience certain feelings consciously. These children master the art of not experiencing emotions because feeling requires someone who accepts them fully. The child becomes the parent's emotional caretaker, available for others' needs while abandoning their authentic self. This leads to sophisticated defense mechanisms and ultimately an "as-if personality" where one reveals only what others expect. As one patient explained: "I lived in a glass house... you cannot conceal anything without giving yourself away, except by hiding it under the ground. And then you cannot see it yourself, either." The tragedy is that these adaptations, while necessary for childhood survival, create an adult who lives perpetually in past dynamics, driven by unconscious memories and repressed feelings.
The Dangerous Dance of Depression and Grandiosity
The Therapeutic Path to Emotional Truth
The Intergenerational Cycle of Contempt
The Origins of Self-Contempt
Finding Freedom Through Emotional Honesty
Breaking Free From the Past
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Создано выпускниками Колумбийского университета в Сан-Франциско
"Instead of endless scrolling, I just hit play on BeFreed. It saves me so much time."
"I never knew where to start with nonfiction—BeFreed’s book lists turned into podcasts gave me a clear path."
"Perfect balance between learning and entertainment. Finished ‘Thinking, Fast and Slow’ on my commute this week."
"Crazy how much I learned while walking the dog. BeFreed = small habits → big gains."
"Reading used to feel like a chore. Now it’s just part of my lifestyle."
"Feels effortless compared to reading. I’ve finished 6 books this month already."
"BeFreed turned my guilty doomscrolling into something that feels productive and inspiring."
"BeFreed turned my commute into learning time. 20-min podcasts are perfect for finishing books I never had time for."
"BeFreed replaced my podcast queue. Imagine Spotify for books — that’s it. 🙌"
"It is great for me to learn something from the book without reading it."
"The themed book list podcasts help me connect ideas across authors—like a guided audio journey."
"Makes me feel smarter every time before going to work"
"Instead of endless scrolling, I just hit play on BeFreed. It saves me so much time."
"I never knew where to start with nonfiction—BeFreed’s book lists turned into podcasts gave me a clear path."
"Perfect balance between learning and entertainment. Finished ‘Thinking, Fast and Slow’ on my commute this week."
"Crazy how much I learned while walking the dog. BeFreed = small habits → big gains."
"Reading used to feel like a chore. Now it’s just part of my lifestyle."
"Feels effortless compared to reading. I’ve finished 6 books this month already."
"BeFreed turned my guilty doomscrolling into something that feels productive and inspiring."
"BeFreed turned my commute into learning time. 20-min podcasts are perfect for finishing books I never had time for."
"BeFreed replaced my podcast queue. Imagine Spotify for books — that’s it. 🙌"
"It is great for me to learn something from the book without reading it."
"The themed book list podcasts help me connect ideas across authors—like a guided audio journey."
"Makes me feel smarter every time before going to work"
"Instead of endless scrolling, I just hit play on BeFreed. It saves me so much time."
"I never knew where to start with nonfiction—BeFreed’s book lists turned into podcasts gave me a clear path."
"Perfect balance between learning and entertainment. Finished ‘Thinking, Fast and Slow’ on my commute this week."
"Crazy how much I learned while walking the dog. BeFreed = small habits → big gains."
"Reading used to feel like a chore. Now it’s just part of my lifestyle."
"Feels effortless compared to reading. I’ve finished 6 books this month already."
"BeFreed turned my guilty doomscrolling into something that feels productive and inspiring."
"BeFreed turned my commute into learning time. 20-min podcasts are perfect for finishing books I never had time for."
"BeFreed replaced my podcast queue. Imagine Spotify for books — that’s it. 🙌"
"It is great for me to learn something from the book without reading it."
"The themed book list podcasts help me connect ideas across authors—like a guided audio journey."
"Makes me feel smarter every time before going to work"
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