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Unleashing Your Inner Champion: The ABCs of Success
Have you ever wondered why some people seem to effortlessly achieve everything they touch while others struggle despite working twice as hard? What if the difference isn't talent, education, or luck, but something much simpler-a set of fundamental principles that anyone can learn? Bob Proctor, one of the world's most respected success coaches, has been teaching these principles for decades, transforming countless lives with his straightforward approach to personal development. His book "The ABCs of Success" has become a favorite of celebrities like Jim Carrey and Ellen DeGeneres, who credit Proctor's teachings with helping them overcome early career obstacles. Even Oprah Winfrey has featured Proctor's work, noting how his ability to make complex concepts accessible has made him a standout in the personal development industry. What makes this book particularly powerful is that it doesn't just tell you what to do-it fundamentally shifts how you see yourself and your potential.
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The Achievement Formula: Awareness, Acceptance, Alteration
Success follows a simple yet profound formula of straight As: Awareness, Acceptance, and Alteration. This three-step process forms the foundation for achieving any goal you set your mind to.
First comes Awareness-recognizing that your results stem from your inner conditioning, not external circumstances. Most people blame their environment, economy, or other people for their lack of success, never realizing that the true source of their results lies within. This awareness is like turning on a light in a dark room-suddenly you can see what's been there all along.
The second A is Acceptance-taking full responsibility for your current situation. This isn't about blame but about empowerment. When you accept that your results come from your own behavior and conditioning, you gain the power to change them. Without this acceptance, no positive change is possible. Think about it: how can you fix something if you don't acknowledge it's yours to fix?
The third step is Alteration-changing your subconscious conditioning through dedicated study and discipline. This is where most people falter. They may become aware of their conditioning and even accept responsibility for it, but they fail to put in the consistent effort needed to alter it. Changing deeply ingrained thought patterns takes time and persistence, but it's the only way to create lasting change.
When you complete these three steps, you reach the fourth A-Achievement. Your behavior creates your results, and your conditioning creates your behavior. By working on your conditioning, you change your behavior, which inevitably changes your results.
Consider someone who consistently struggles with money. Through awareness, they recognize their financial problems stem from beliefs about money formed in childhood. Through acceptance, they take responsibility for these beliefs rather than blaming the economy. Through alteration, they study new financial principles and practice new money habits. The result? Achievement of financial goals that once seemed impossible.
This process works for any area of life-relationships, career, health, or personal growth. The formula remains the same: Awareness, Acceptance, Alteration, and ultimately, Achievement.
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Action: The Bridge Between Thought and Reality
Positive thinking without corresponding action creates frustration rather than fulfillment. This half-truth is more deceptive than an outright lie because it contains enough truth to be believable. Thinking positively about music won't make you a musician; only picking up an instrument and practicing will.
Action serves as the antidote to discouragement-what Earl Nightingale called "the devil's most prized possession." Unlike other negative emotions that at least provoke some response, discouragement paralyzes through self-pity and inaction. This worn and battered wedge is the devil's most valued tool because it stops people from taking any steps forward. The solution is simple but powerful: intelligent action.
Winners are distinguished by their willingness to act decisively in pursuing their dreams. They're fully awake and active in the marketplace, turning visions into reality. You can identify them by their visible success markers-nice vehicles, beautiful homes, happy families, healthy bodies, and involvement in executing big ideas. They remain undistracted by criticism, focused instead on transforming dreams into reality.
I witnessed this principle firsthand when working with a brilliant but hesitant entrepreneur. He had revolutionary ideas but kept postponing implementation, always finding reasons to delay. Meanwhile, his competitor-with an inferior product-launched quickly, gained market share, and eventually became the industry leader. The difference wasn't intelligence or even quality of ideas-it was simply the willingness to act.
Remember: the world doesn't reward those who have the best ideas; it rewards those who act on their ideas. Thinking and planning have their place, but without action, they're merely intellectual exercises. When you feel stuck or discouraged, take one small action toward your goal. That single step can break the paralysis and start a momentum that carries you forward.
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Embracing Your Natural Ambition
We are born goal-achievers, programmed from our first breath to constantly improve our lives. Think about your earliest achievements-eating, crawling, talking, walking. Each brought satisfaction, pride, and joy, followed by healthy dissatisfaction that pushed you toward greater accomplishments.
This natural cycle of achievement and renewed ambition drives human progress. Unfortunately, many people are told to be satisfied with what they have, losing touch with their goal-setting nature. We're conditioned to suppress our ambition, to settle for "good enough" when our natural state is to strive for better.
Consider a child learning to walk. After mastering the first wobbly steps, they don't say, "Well, that's good enough!" Instead, they feel a surge of satisfaction followed quickly by the desire to walk faster, run, jump, and explore. This pattern-achievement, satisfaction, healthy dissatisfaction, new goal-is our natural programming.
Cultivating healthy dissatisfaction is the creative state that advanced humanity from caves to condominiums. It's not about being perpetually unhappy but about recognizing that growth and improvement are fundamental human needs.
I once worked with a middle manager who had been in the same position for fifteen years. When asked about his career goals, he shrugged and said he was "satisfied." Yet his body language and tone revealed profound dissatisfaction. After some coaching, he reconnected with his natural ambition-the part of him that wanted to grow and achieve more. Within two years, he had been promoted twice and found a level of fulfillment he hadn't experienced in over a decade.
Set big, exciting goals and pursue them with childlike enthusiasm. That's truly living; everything else is slowly dying. Your ambition isn't something to be ashamed of or suppressed-it's your birthright and the key to a fulfilling life.
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The Power of Attitude: Shaping Your Reality
While animals have protective coloration to blend into their environments, humans stand out in any terrain. This is because we possess a greater gift-the godlike power to make our surroundings change to fit us rather than adapting ourselves to our environment.
Your environment reflects who you are, not the other way around. When you improve as a person, your surroundings improve to match. The attitude you carry daily proclaims what you think of yourself and indicates the person you've decided to become.
Many people defend their "rightness" with abundant energy, but objectively, we're never truly right. Our way might be good, valid, or better, but never "the right way." Believing your way is the only right way paralyzes progress and creativity. Instead of claiming rightness, acknowledge your approach as effective while recognizing there's always a better way.
Some people live with minds like rooms with mirrored walls-no matter which way they look, they only see themselves and their situations. Unable to invoke the law of relativity or compare their lives to others, they remain trapped in self-absorption. By replacing these mental mirrors with windows, they would discover our fascinating world full of color, interesting people, and opportunities.
When faced with frustration, most people respond with aggression-like honking at a slow driver. But this often creates additional problems. Actor Sir Alec Guinness shared how his colleague Sir Tyrone Guthrie used a simple three-word phrase for everything from toothaches to catastrophes: "Rise above it." This mindset can make many troubles vanish and eliminate the frustration accompanying our problems.
I once knew two entrepreneurs who faced the same business challenge-a major client cancellation that threatened their companies. The first became angry, blamed everyone else, and spent weeks complaining about the unfairness. The second acknowledged the setback, said "Rise above it," and immediately began pursuing new opportunities. Within a month, the second entrepreneur had replaced the lost business and even expanded, while the first was still stuck in bitterness and struggling financially. Their attitudes, not their circumstances, determined their outcomes.
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Choosing Your Path: The Power of Decision
Decision-making forms the foundation of personal power. Many fear making decisions because they fear mistakes, yet this fear impacts us more negatively than the mistakes themselves. Successful people make decisions quickly and change them slowly, if at all.
To face decisions effectively, write down where you are, where you want to be, and the steps needed to bridge that gap. Consider both worst and best outcomes, preparing for obstacles while maintaining optimism.
While governments constantly create new laws attempting to make people successful and happy, Theodore Roosevelt noted that no law can enable success without "hard work, keen intelligence and unflinching will." Only you can decide to do good work, use your intelligence, and develop the unflinching will to stay focused on your objectives.
How often do you say "I have to" in a day? The truth is, there's nothing you "have to" do-everything is a choice. Even paying taxes is a choice (with consequences). The ability to choose is your greatest power and what separates humans from other animals. Many people stay in jobs they detest, not realizing that "I quit" could change their lives.
President Eisenhower told Kennedy that easy problems never reach the President-if they were easy, someone else would have solved them. Abraham Lincoln learned this lesson a century earlier, discovering that leadership positions not only bring big decisions but attract numerous critics. When asked if criticism bothered him, Lincoln replied with wisdom we should remember: "If I were to try to read, much less answer, all the attacks made on me, this shop might as well be closed for any further business. I do the very best I know how...If the end brings me out all right, what is said against me won't amount to anything. If the end brings me out wrong, ten thousand angels swearing I was right would make no difference."
Our past experiences and present circumstances have only the power we choose to give them. We mentally mix our experiences daily-choose to focus on past accomplishments and successes that brought joy. This positive mental focus makes your present exciting and creates a dynamic vision for your future.
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Communication: The Art of Connection
Intuition-our sixth sense-gives us the ability to pick up others' moods, thoughts, and feelings beyond their words. Everyone possesses this mental faculty, and anyone can develop it through exercise. Effective salespeople and detectives have super-sensitive intuitive factors, enabling them to detect when someone is lying or hiding something.
To develop your intuition, seek feedback from those with whom you have rapport. Eventually, you'll pay more attention to the vibrations you receive than the words you hear. As Steve Jobs advised, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition-they somehow already know what you truly want to become.
The greatest asset for successful communication is our ability to listen. Listening is a magnetic, creative force that draws people toward us. When people are genuinely listened to, it stimulates them, enabling ideas to grow within them. Effective listening means giving yourself to others without thought of gain until you understand their position.
You listen not just with your ears, but with your eyes, your intuitive factor, and even your body posture. By actively listening, you pay someone the sincere compliment of saying: I believe what you think matters.
I once observed a master communicator at work during a high-stakes business negotiation. While others were busy formulating their next arguments, she was fully present, listening intently to each speaker. When her turn came, she addressed the specific concerns others had raised, often using their exact language. The result? She won over the room and secured the deal, not because her proposal was superior, but because she made everyone feel genuinely heard and understood.
Are you doing more than you're being paid for? Those who answer "absolutely not" are likely moving in the wrong direction in life. While many operate on the principle "give me the money first, then I'll do the job," our economy actually works the opposite way: "do the job first, then get the money." The businesses and workers who are consistently rewarded are those who deliver more than they were paid for.
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Cultivating Divine Self-Confidence
There are three types of self-confidence, but only one that truly holds water. False self-confidence comes from low self-esteem masked by a front. The second type is real confidence that turns to conceit-doing something well and making sure everyone knows it.
The third and most powerful is divine self-confidence-doing what you do well and knowing why. These individuals recognize the infinite power within themselves and simply build an image in their mind of what they want to accomplish. This divine self-confidence, developed through years of study and self-discipline, brings happiness, health, and prosperity.
Self-confidence is simply knowledge. If you've done something well 5,000 times, you know you can do it-you're confident. Without that knowledge, doubt creeps in. The key to building confidence is trying new things and stretching your abilities.
Self-doubt is progressive-when you refuse to take risks, you begin a downward spiral of rejecting growth opportunities for the safety net of life. By taking chances and succeeding, you create a pattern of stretching your abilities and increasing your knowledge about your skill level.
I witnessed this transformation in a young woman who joined a public speaking program. Initially terrified of speaking before groups, she forced herself to participate weekly. Each small success built her confidence incrementally. Within six months, she was not only comfortable speaking to large audiences but had developed such divine self-confidence that she began teaching others. The difference wasn't some magical personality transformation-it was simply the accumulated knowledge that she could succeed, proven to herself through repeated experience.
Take some risks-you have amazing potential waiting to be unleashed. Remember that confidence isn't about never feeling fear; it's about acknowledging the fear and moving forward anyway, knowing that each step builds the knowledge that becomes true confidence.
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The Creative Voice Within: Finding Your Unique Path
Everyone is creative, though most people haven't developed this potential. Those who walk the creative path often find themselves in places no one has ever been before. While this brings challenges-peculiarity breeds contempt, and being ahead of your time means others will claim your insights were obvious all along-creativity leads to a fuller, more vital life.
The person who follows the crowd gets no further than the crowd, but those who walk the creative path often find themselves in uncharted territory. You have two choices: dissolve into the mainstream or be distinct. To be distinct requires being different, and to be different means becoming what only you can be.
Goals drive us forward when challenges arise. The true value lies not in the goal itself but in the growth experienced while pursuing it. Without goals, quitting becomes logical whenever difficulties emerge. It's the mental image of achievement that sustains our effort through hardship.
In 1926, when no woman had yet swum the English Channel, an automobile company offered a red Buick convertible and $2,000 to the first woman who could. Nineteen-year-old Gertrude Ederle, visualizing herself with that car, attempted the swim. When her strength began failing midway across, she closed her eyes and imagined herself sitting in that red convertible. This vision gave her the strength to continue until she reached the opposite shore.
The car was her true goal; swimming the Channel was merely what she needed to do to achieve it. The image of her goal provided the necessary strength to keep going-a principle that works for anyone with a clear objective.
Don't fear the opinions of others; instead, follow that quiet, creative voice from within. When you trust your creativity and set clear goals aligned with your inner vision, you access a wellspring of motivation and resilience that can carry you through any challenge.
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Faith and Belief: The Foundation of Achievement
Faith means believing despite evidence indicating failure, maintaining conviction when circumstances suggest defeat, and recognizing your inherent power to overcome obstacles through unwavering belief.
My friend recently had his business inventory completely stolen, with no insurance coverage-seemingly a total loss. While newspapers declared him "virtually out of business," his attitude remained unshaken: "This is the way I started, and I will start the very same way again." This exemplifies how faith can overpower overwhelming evidence.
Too many people let circumstances dictate their futures, but those with explosive faith create a domino effect, knocking down obstacles and gaining momentum. These exceptional individuals prove we're all bigger than any evidence suggesting failure.
History abounds with people who achieved incredible goals despite devastating obstacles-lost fortunes, lost loved ones, physical challenges-yet never wavered. What made these people great was their unshakable belief and faith. This wasn't some emotional or capricious divine favor-YOU possess these same tools.
The difference is their faith wasn't blind or easily shattered; it was founded on understanding. These "spiritual people" believe effortlessly because they KNOW they can manifest what they visualize. They recognize themselves as dynamic, creative beings. And so are you.
Your beliefs follow you everywhere, shaping your reality. Most people hold negative self-concepts-being overweight, making poor educational choices, ignoring parental advice. These limiting beliefs, usually acquired unchallenged in childhood, become convenient excuses for poor performance.
As William James said, "Believe and your belief will create the fact." Negative beliefs guarantee matching results, but positive beliefs do too. If you're unhappy with your life, question your beliefs. Study the positive aspects of yourself through good books or programs-you'll find this an exciting adventure with tangible rewards proportionate to your effort.
Earl Nightingale once explained our ageless human trait of fearing the unknown-assuming what's untried must be dangerous. Ancient mapmakers, reaching the limits of their knowledge, would write "Beyond this point is great danger" or "Beyond this point are dangerous creatures." People believed these warnings and wouldn't venture further.
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The Power of Focus and Goal Setting
Reader's Digest once shared this profound insight: "Small minds talk about people. Average minds talk about events. Great minds talk about ideas." Most people waste time in meaningless chatter, constantly shifting topics without purpose. If you're not mentally on guard, you'll be swept into this useless waste of time and energy.
Your environment will dictate your mental state unless you consciously create order in your mind. Associate instead with those great souls who discuss big ideas rather than small things that amuse small minds.
James Allen wrote about the human will as "that force unseen" that can "hew a way to any goal, though walls of granite intervene." Your will gives genuine power to your ideas, and all great achievers demonstrate the ability to stay focused on their objectives.
To develop this mental strength, try a simple exercise: sit with a lit candle and stare at the flame for 4-5 minutes several times daily. When your attention wanders, bring it back to the flame. Within a month, your ability to focus will become automatic, giving you the power of concentration that makes your ideas potent.
John Goddard proves life need never be dull. At fifteen, he listed 127 challenging goals he tenaciously pursued-exploring the Nile and Congo rivers, climbing Mount Everest, running a five-minute mile, playing "Claire de Lune" on piano. By the time of writing, he'd accomplished 108 of these challenges, plus new ones like flying the supersonic B-1 bomber.
I've given away hundreds of thousands of goal cards over decades. People's reactions vary-some dismiss them with a smile, others eagerly take extras. It's simply a card in a plastic sleeve with space to write your goal, designed to be carried loose in pocket or purse so each touch reminds you of your objective.
Research shows only 13 percent of people have clearly defined goals, and just 3 percent write them down-yet this 3 percent enjoys the highest incomes and most meaningful lives. I've carried my goals in my pocket since 1961, and it works like magic. Whatever you write on that card, you'll ultimately achieve if you continue carrying and reading it.
The saddest thing at a funeral isn't the death of the body but the death of dreams-all those houses never built, businesses never started, trips never taken. Millions go to their graves with the music still in them. Whatever you want to be, do, or have, decide this instant to accomplish it. Don't wait for favorable circumstances.
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Unleashing Your Potential Through Imagination and Innovation
Goal Achievers don't limit themselves-they use their imagination properly. While some play it safe, never risking triumph or defeat, Goal Achievers eagerly blaze new trails with emotionally inspiring goals. Only you can decide your goal-don't let others set it for you. Your goal should be something you want, not need, as there's no inspiration in needs.
Never reject a goal simply because you don't have the whole picture or all the resources. The Wright brothers wouldn't have created airplanes if they'd waited until they knew how everything would work out. Set clear objectives and see the end result without worrying about how it will happen. If you can create the picture and lock into it, the method will come. As Carlyle said, "Go as far as you can see. When you get there, you will see how you can go further."
Henry Ford advised young people to look for the spark of individuality that makes them different and develop it fully. Too many people spend their lives trying to be what others expect, forcing themselves into patterns established for different personalities. They become blurred mirror images, snuffing out their individuality to imitate others.
It takes courage to break from the crowd-as Earl Nightingale said, the opposite of courage isn't cowardice but conformity. Take time to identify what makes you different and develop it. When pressured to conform but everything in you says no, be courageous and go your own way.
"Un-common sense" is the priceless ingredient behind all progress and inventions. What we call "common sense" is merely based on the moral standards and accepted opinions of the times. The world was once considered flat because it was "common sense." Samuel Morse couldn't get permission to erect telegraph poles because sending messages through wire wasn't "common sense." The Wright brothers' flights weren't believed for the same reason.
You are a living, breathing, creative magnet with the ability to control what you attract into your life. The law of attraction states that you can only attract what is in harmony with you. Everything in the universe vibrates, including your mind and body. Your mind controls your vibration through the thoughts you choose.
Freedom comes from this choice-no one can make you think something you don't want to. The problem begins when people let external circumstances determine their thinking. Ninety percent of people wish positive but think negative, attracting negative outcomes by law. As a creative individual, you'll continually attract good things by thinking positive thoughts and expecting the best life has to offer.
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The Path to Personal Mastery and Success
Real leadership isn't about position-it's about the ability to lead. A leader knows where they're going and can persuade others to follow. Organizations can survive financial shortages or poor facilities, but without leadership, survival is unlikely. Exceptional leaders are self-starters who don't need external motivation. They demonstrate humility rather than self-importance, maintain emotional control, use humor to attract others, and radiate positivity in a negative world.
Effective managers understand a fundamental psychological truth: we are all two people. First, we present a superficial facade that reflects what we think others want to see. Second, we have our real selves-locked away from others' scrutiny and often from ourselves. The ideal is to unify these two selves, becoming one person inside and out.
Your brain is far more valuable than any luxury automobile, yet most people barely use its capacity. Though only 2 percent of your body weight, it demands 20 percent of your blood supply and takes its nutrients first. It's the most powerful electrical instrument ever evolved, making today's most advanced computers look primitive by comparison.
Becoming a millionaire starts with seeing yourself as one. Study successful millionaires and you'll discover they didn't join this select club by accident-they made a conscious decision to become wealthy. Try breaking down a million into smaller parts on paper, then list all the ways you could make it happen. You'll quickly realize that a million dollars isn't that much money, and that you're likely sharper than many who've already earned it. The only difference? They decided to do it.
Awards can play a vital role in our lives, reminding us we can do work worthy of recognition and providing fuel for greater achievements. However, we must avoid the error of resting on our laurels while our creative abilities atrophy. While we don't need trophies to confirm our capabilities, positive reinforcement benefits us all.
When people begin implementing positive changes, they often discover their closest relationships become strained. The same people who claim to want what's best for you resist your transformation because they're accustomed to interacting with who you used to be. This creates conflict-you're not only fighting old internal habits but battling those around you. My advice? Keep going! Your real cheering squad awaits just around the corner. You'll attract more positive, supportive people who want to better themselves too.
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Transforming Obstacles into Opportunities
Obstacles are universal life experiences, and success comes from conquering them as they appear. I vividly recall my navy basic training days, being marched to obstacle courses at ridiculous hours. At the time, I believed our instructors were sadists trying to kill us.
Looking back with wisdom, I realize they were toughening us up, making men from boys. Those obstacles connected us with inner resources we didn't know existed. Though we approached each march with hostility, we returned tired but enthusiastic-we had conquered something! The "sadistic" leaders suddenly became good guys when we returned victorious.
George Bernard Shaw said, "People are always blaming circumstances for what they are; I don't believe in circumstances. The people who get on in this world are the people who get up and look for the circumstances they want and if they can't find them, they make them."
Starting today, for thirty days, take control over your circumstances. Millions miss golden opportunities because they let circumstances stop them. When you say "I would like to do this but I can't, because..." whatever follows "because" is a circumstance controlling you.
Consider the Japanese gymnast Shun Fujimoto who won Olympic gold with a fractured leg in a plastic cast. High achievers make things happen because they refuse to let circumstances stop them.
The Chinese write "crisis" with two brushstrokes-one for danger, one for opportunity. When you approach each crisis seeking the opportunity within it, you'll benefit and set the stage for continued growth.
Everyone has problems, and real producers have crises. The important element is how you handle them. Public personalities must be mental giants, enduring frequent criticism that would crush others. For those with high goals, public criticism is viewed as unpleasant but necessary for their growth.
A diamond begins as rough coal, becoming beautiful only through abrasion. Don't shy away from crises-they make you stronger. Opportunity often comes disguised as misfortune or temporary defeat. When you recognize the opportunity within each crisis, you'll develop wisdom and mental strength that continues to serve you.
Napoleon Hill devoted an entire chapter to persistence in his classic Think and Grow Rich, saying "persistence is to character what carbon is to steel." Think about any past accomplishment and you'll realize persistence played a crucial role.
Hill studied the world's most successful people and found the only quality in Henry Ford or Thomas Edison that he couldn't find in everyone else was persistence. These men were often misunderstood as ruthless, but this misconception grew from their habit of following through with persistence.
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The Power of Thought and Vision in Creating Your Reality
Most people don't truly think-as Leland Val Van de Wall humorously noted, "If most people said what they were thinking, they would be speechless." Dr. Kenneth McFarland similarly observed that "Two percent of the people think, three percent think they think, and ninety-five percent would rather die than think." Even George Bernard Shaw claimed his international reputation came from thinking just two or three times weekly.
Your inductive reasoning gives you true freedom-the ability to choose your thoughts. As Viktor Frankl discovered in Nazi concentration camps, no one can make you think something you don't choose to think. Thinking is your highest function and should be exercised constantly.
All great leaders throughout history unanimously agree we become what we think about, while disagreeing on almost everything else. Unfortunately, most people rarely think, simply accepting what they see or hear.
We live in a Universe of Infinite Intelligence that responds to our every thought, with each mental impulse setting mighty energy in motion. Thought molds our character and drives all significant human achievements-building cities, shaping nations, and determining our destiny. Every invention and worthwhile discovery began as a mental concept.
Helen Keller wisely observed that worse than blindness is having sight but no vision. Without vision of a better life, people imprison themselves in a hopeless existence. This often happens after repeated failures damage one's self-image, causing them to lose sight of their potential and resign themselves to their fate.
As Vernon Howard noted, "you cannot escape from a prison if you do not know that you are in one." To break free from this negative cycle, build a mental picture of exactly how you'd like to live. Hold this vision, and positive improvements will flow into your mind. Remember: your vision represents the actual lifestyle of many others. If they can achieve it, you most certainly can too, as all people have the same potential to live their dreams.
In "Man of La Mancha," Don Quixote asks a profound question: "Who is crazy? Am I crazy because I see the world as it could become? Or is the world crazy because it only sees itself as it is?" Focusing solely on present results guarantees more of the same-why unhappy people remain unhappy, lonely people remain lonely, and poor people remain poor.
As James Allen wrote, "The visionaries are the saviors of the world." All life-improving inventions came from "Don Quixotes" who saw the world's potential. If you're feeling down or stuck in a rut, develop the Quixote attitude-see your work, relationships, or achievements as they could become. Build a beautiful mental picture of improved results and don't let naysayers dissuade you. You'll be amazed at what you can accomplish.
The line between winning and losing is as fine as a razor's edge. Somerset Maugham and Darryl Zanuck both recognized this truth-there isn't a big difference among people, only in what they accomplish. One person almost starts a project; another actually starts it. One nearly completes a task; another completes it. It's the little things that make a big difference. You're probably just one step away from greatness.