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    Discover how to transform toxic conflicts into productive conversations using proven techniques from FBI negotiators and conflict experts. Drawing from Amanda Ripley's 'High Conflict' and Bill Eddy's CARS Method, learn the psychology behind high-conflict personalities and practical tools to maintain your sanity.

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    The goal isn't to have less conflict; it's to have the right kind of conflict. Healthy conflict is messy but productive, while high conflict transforms into a good-versus-evil feud where everyone gets trapped.

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