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    Lena and Eli dive deep into the science behind modern dating, exploring why apps feel overwhelming, the myth of instant spark, attachment styles, and research-backed strategies for building genuine connections in the digital age.

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    Dating apps are essentially rewiring our preferences by emphasizing measurable traits like height and income, treating humans like searchable products when we're actually 'experience goods' that require personal encounter to evaluate properly.

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