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I Didn’t Sign Up for This
Tracy Dalgleish
4.3 (508 Reviews)
Relationship
Self Help
Memoir
Mental Health
개요
핵심 요점
저자
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Overview of I Didn’t Sign Up for This

Psychologist Dr. Tracy Dalgleish reveals what happens when relationships crumble - including her own. Endorsed by bestselling author Dr. Becky Kennedy, this rare glimpse into real therapy sessions offers tools that transformed countless struggling couples. What's your relationship's breaking point?

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Relationships: The Journey We Never Expected

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Ever fallen head over heels for someone, only to find yourself months or years later thinking, "This isn't what I signed up for"? That magical person who once seemed perfect now leaves dishes in the sink, withdraws during arguments, or seems oblivious to your emotional needs. This universal experience of disillusionment isn't a sign your relationship is doomed-it's actually the beginning of a deeper connection, if you're willing to navigate it consciously. The early romantic haze inevitably gives way to reality, revealing patterns that often stem from our earliest attachment experiences. Many of us were raised believing that dependency equals weakness, that we should be completely self-sufficient. Yet true relationship strength comes not from independence but from healthy interdependence: maintaining individuality while connecting deeply with another person. Think about it-how many of your relationship frustrations stem not from the surface issues (those unwashed dishes or forgotten errands) but from deeper feelings of being unseen, unappreciated, or emotionally abandoned? The good news is that even if only one partner is willing to change, significant growth is possible. The journey begins with awareness of our patterns, acknowledgment of our needs, and aligning our actions with our deepest values.

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Breaking Free from Destructive Cycles

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Your Body and Emotions: Keys to Connection

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Boundaries: The Framework for Healthy Love

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