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Alexandra H. Solomon

Alexandra H. Solomon is a clinical psychologist and relationship expert whose work focuses on intimacy, relational self-awareness, sexuality, and committed partnership. She is the author of Loving Bravely, Taking Sexy Back, and Love Every Day, translating psychological research and therapeutic practice into accessible guidance on modern relationships.

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Alexandra H. Solomon is an American clinical psychologist, educator, and author whose work sits at the intersection of relationship science, therapy, and public education. Her academic foundation joined psychology and women’s studies at the University of Michigan, where she earned her bachelor’s degree in 1995, before she completed an MA and PhD in counseling psychology at Northwestern University, along with a graduate certificate in gender studies, in 2001. That blend of scholarship and clinical training helped define the core concern of her career: how people learn patterns of love, conflict, desire, repair, and self-understanding within intimate relationships. ((https://sesp.northwestern.edu/people/faculty/alexandra-solomon.html))

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In your most important relationships, you are put face to face with vital questions about who you are, and what you want
-About Dr. Alexandra Solomon
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We come to know ourselves through our relationships
-Tending to Your Inner Child
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That’s because long-term love is about choosing someone who will be by your side when the stuff hits the fan
-The #1 Quality to Look for in a Romantic Partner
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We have to persist anyway in a space of not knowing
-I Love Them, But I'm Not in Love With Them
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Each of us deserves an experience of erotic confidence that is authentic rather than performative
-Want to Feel More Confident in the Bedroom? Start with This
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A situationship is not a forever thing, neither by design, nor by desire
-Is Your Situationship Working?
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Neutrality is not a requirement of healing because love does not leave us where it finds us
-How to Get Closure After a Breakup
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Remember that you are not your profile
-12 Strategies for Swiping with Relational Self-Awareness
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The only person you have control over is yourself
-Ten Essential Skills for Navigating Conflict
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Because the self is relational, we are changed by the experience of loving and being loved
-I'm Thinking About Getting Back Together With My Ex: Part I

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Love Without Losing Your Center
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Love Without Losing Your Center

This learning plan is essential for individuals who find themselves losing their identity or peace of mind in romantic relationships. It is specifically designed for those seeking to balance deep connection with personal autonomy while supporting partners in high-pressure environments.

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The Science of Social Confidence
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The Science of Social Confidence

This learning plan bridges the gap between internal psychology and external social success. It is designed for individuals looking to move beyond 'fake it till you make it' strategies to develop deep-seated assurance and sophisticated relationship skills.

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The Art of Seductive Connection
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The Art of Seductive Connection

In a world of digital noise, the ability to create genuine, magnetic chemistry is a rare and valuable skill. This plan is designed for individuals looking to move beyond superficial dating habits and master the nuanced psychology of attraction and emotional depth.

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Dark Psychology and Human Dynamics
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Dark Psychology and Human Dynamics

This learning plan is essential for professionals and individuals navigating high-stakes social or corporate environments where hidden agendas are common. It provides the psychological literacy needed to identify predatory behavior and master the subtle art of social influence. Anyone looking to strengthen their emotional boundaries and strategic standing will find these insights invaluable.

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Reclaiming Yourself in the Affair
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Reclaiming Yourself in the Affair

This plan is designed for those feeling lost in the complexity of being the 'other woman' and seeking to regain their autonomy. It provides the psychological tools necessary to break emotional cycles and shift from a state of waiting to a future of self-respect and availability.

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Defending Your Personal Autonomy
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Defending Your Personal Autonomy

This learning plan is essential for individuals seeking to protect their mental well-being from manipulative personalities and coercive environments. It provides practical psychological tools for anyone looking to strengthen their emotional resilience and assert their independence in high-pressure relationships.

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Ancient Wisdom for Modern Living
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Ancient Wisdom for Modern Living

In an era of constant distraction and uncertainty, these foundational philosophical principles offer a roadmap for mental clarity and emotional stability. This plan is ideal for anyone seeking to replace reactive habits with intentional living and ancient resilience strategies.

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Bonding Beyond the Body
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Bonding Beyond the Body

In an era of superficial connections, understanding the science of attraction is essential for building lasting intimacy. This plan is ideal for individuals seeking to move beyond physical appearance and master the psychological and physiological art of deep human bonding.

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"Alexandra H. Solomon wisely implores readers to turn off the noise, tune into our authentic selves, and cultivate a deeper sense of relational self-awareness"

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"Alexandra H. Solomon's Loving Bravely is a terrific guidebook for anyone contemplating or engaged in an intimate relationship"

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"Alexandra H. Solomon has written the best book ever about creating, developing, and nurturing relationships"

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"Alexandra H. Solomon has written a clear-eyed, practical guidebook on nothing less than how to love"

Terry Real

"Alexandra Solomon's work is mandatory for anyone who desires a road map to improve their relationships"

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