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The Next Conversation
Jefferson Fisher
4.36 (6914 Reviews)
Communication Skill
Personal Development
Relationship
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Overview of The Next Conversation

Jefferson Fisher's viral communication system - say it with control, confidence, and connection - transforms difficult conversations into opportunities. Endorsed by Chris Voss and Dr. Becky Kennedy, this NYT bestseller teaches why "never winning arguments" creates stronger relationships. What ripples will your next words create?

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Conversations That Change Everything: The Hidden River Beneath Our Words

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Have you ever walked away from a conversation wishing you'd said something differently? That feeling of missed opportunity, of words that fell flat when they needed to soar, is universal. What makes effective communication so elusive isn't a lack of knowing what to say-it's mastering how to say it. Drawing from years as a trial lawyer, this approach isn't about personality tests or attachment styles, but practical techniques that transform everyday interactions. Picture this: a towering man slams his hand on a table during a deposition, declaring he doesn't trust you "as far as he could throw you." The natural response? Defense or counterattack. But what if, instead, you got curious about this disproportionate reaction? When asked about his biggest struggle, this intimidating figure revealed he'd recently placed his mother in assisted living and felt overwhelmed by paperwork he couldn't understand. After hearing "you're a good son," this giant broke down crying. This reveals a profound truth: the person you see isn't the person you're talking to. Like a river with an undercurrent, conversations have two layers-the visible surface and the hidden truth running below. The surface shows physical cues while beneath flows the reality-the coworker worried about his brother's rehab, the scattered cashier concerned about affording school supplies. Winning arguments is ultimately a losing game. You might win technically but lose something far more valuable-trust, connection, respect. Behind every harsh word lies a backstory. If you can find the discipline to discover the fear or hope underneath, that's where real communication begins.

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Setting Goals and Building Authentic Connection

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Mastering Your Responses in Heated Moments

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The Strategic Power of Silence and Pacing

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Framing Conversations for Focus and Clarity

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Overcoming Defensiveness for Deeper Understanding

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