How to Keep People from Pushing Your Buttons book cover

How to Keep People from Pushing Your Buttons by Albert Ellis Summary

How to Keep People from Pushing Your Buttons
Albert Ellis
3.6 (546 Reviews)
Psychology
Self-growth
Relationship
Mindfulness
概要
主なポイント
著者
よくある質問

Overview of How to Keep People from Pushing Your Buttons

Master your emotions and stop others from controlling them. Dr. Albert Ellis's groundbreaking guide offers practical cognitive-behavioral techniques that transform relationships and reduce stress. This influential work in REBT psychology has shaped therapeutic approaches worldwide. Ever wonder why Tony Robbins references these principles? Your emotional freedom awaits.

Similar books to How to Keep People from Pushing Your Buttons

あなたに合った学び方を探す
クイックサマリー9分

著者の声を通じて本を感じる

深堀り42分

知識を魅力的で例が豊富な洞察に変換

フラッシュカード8件の洞察

キーアイデアを瞬時にキャプチャして素早く学習

エンタメ21分

楽しく魅力的な方法で本を楽しむ

重要なポイント

1

Mastering Your Emotional Buttons: The Power of Rational Thinking

play
00:00
00:00

Ever found yourself seething with rage at a rude waiter, feeling crushed by criticism, or exploding at your teenager over a messy room? According to psychologist Albert Ellis, these emotional overreactions are entirely preventable - once you understand what's really happening. His revolutionary approach challenges the idea that external events cause our feelings. Instead, he reveals something far more empowering: we create our own emotional distress through irrational thinking patterns. The good news? Once we recognize these patterns, we can change them, transforming how we respond to life's inevitable frustrations. This insight has influenced everyone from Tony Robbins to military resilience training programs, helping millions regain control of their emotional lives. As Will Smith once noted, "Understanding that I control my emotional reactions was the single most important realization of my career."

2

Understanding Emotional Triggers: The Fatal Foursome and ABC Model

3

Catastrophic Thinking: When "What If" Becomes "It's Awful!"

4

Absolutist Thinking: The Tyranny of "Should"

5

Four Steps to Emotional Freedom

6

Relationship and Parenting Button-Pushers

7

Taking Back Your Emotional Power

あなたに合った学び方を探す
『How to Keep People from Pushing Your Buttons』は単なる本ではありません—Psychologyのマスタークラスです。あなたに最適な方法でレッスンを吸収できるよう、5つのユニークな学習モードを用意しています。深く考える人も、素早く学ぶ人も、物語が好きな人も、あなたのスタイルに合ったモードがあります。

クイックサマリーモード - 『How to Keep People from Pushing Your Buttons』の要約を9分で読む・聴く

クイックサマリー
クイックサマリー
『How to Keep People from Pushing Your Buttons』を9分で要約

『How to Keep People from Pushing Your Buttons』の核心的なアイデアを分かりやすいポイントに分解し、革新的なチームがどのように創造、協力、成長するかを理解します。

play
00:00
00:00

フラッシュカードモード - 『How to Keep People from Pushing Your Buttons』から厳選した8の洞察

フラッシュカード
フラッシュカード
『How to Keep People from Pushing Your Buttons』から厳選した8の洞察

『How to Keep People from Pushing Your Buttons』を素早い記憶のヒントに凝縮し、率直さ、チームワーク、創造的な回復力の主要原則を強調します。

Flash Mode Swiper

エンタメモード - 『How to Keep People from Pushing Your Buttons』のレッスンを21分のストーリーで

エンタメ
エンタメ
『How to Keep People from Pushing Your Buttons』のレッスンを21分のストーリーで

鮮やかなストーリーテリングを通じて『How to Keep People from Pushing Your Buttons』を体験し、イノベーションのレッスンを記憶に残り、応用できる瞬間に変えます。

play
00:00
00:00

パーソナライズモード - 『How to Keep People from Pushing Your Buttons』の要約を0分で読む・聴く

パーソナライズ
パーソナライズ
あなた自身の方法で『How to Keep People from Pushing Your Buttons』を体験。

何でも質問し、声を選び、本当にあなたに響く洞察を一緒に作り出しましょう。

Personalize Mode

コロンビア大学卒業生がサンフランシスコで開発

BeFreedは20万人以上の好奇心旺盛な仲間が集うグローバルコミュニティ

"Instead of endless scrolling, I just hit play on BeFreed. It saves me so much time."

@Moemenn
platform
star
star
star
star
star

"I never knew where to start with nonfiction—BeFreed’s book lists turned into podcasts gave me a clear path."

@Chloe, Solo founder, LA
platform
comments
12
likes
117

"Perfect balance between learning and entertainment. Finished ‘Thinking, Fast and Slow’ on my commute this week."

@Raaaaaachelw
platform
star
star
star
star
star

"Crazy how much I learned while walking the dog. BeFreed = small habits → big gains."

@Matt, YC alum
platform
comments
12
likes
108

"Reading used to feel like a chore. Now it’s just part of my lifestyle."

@Erin, Investment Banking Associate , NYC
platform
comments
254
likes
17

"Feels effortless compared to reading. I’ve finished 6 books this month already."

@djmikemoore
platform
star
star
star
star
star

"BeFreed turned my guilty doomscrolling into something that feels productive and inspiring."

@Pitiful
platform
comments
96
likes
4.5K

"BeFreed turned my commute into learning time. 20-min podcasts are perfect for finishing books I never had time for."

@SofiaP
platform
star
star
star
star
star

"BeFreed replaced my podcast queue. Imagine Spotify for books — that’s it. 🙌"

@Jaded_Falcon
platform
comments
201
thumbsUp
16

"It is great for me to learn something from the book without reading it."

@OojasSalunke
platform
star
star
star
star
star

"The themed book list podcasts help me connect ideas across authors—like a guided audio journey."

@Leo, Law Student, UPenn
platform
comments
37
likes
483

"Makes me feel smarter every time before going to work"

@Cashflowbubu
platform
star
star
star
star
star

"Instead of endless scrolling, I just hit play on BeFreed. It saves me so much time."

@Moemenn
platform
star
star
star
star
star

"I never knew where to start with nonfiction—BeFreed’s book lists turned into podcasts gave me a clear path."

@Chloe, Solo founder, LA
platform
comments
12
likes
117

"Perfect balance between learning and entertainment. Finished ‘Thinking, Fast and Slow’ on my commute this week."

@Raaaaaachelw
platform
star
star
star
star
star

"Crazy how much I learned while walking the dog. BeFreed = small habits → big gains."

@Matt, YC alum
platform
comments
12
likes
108

"Reading used to feel like a chore. Now it’s just part of my lifestyle."

@Erin, Investment Banking Associate , NYC
platform
comments
254
likes
17

"Feels effortless compared to reading. I’ve finished 6 books this month already."

@djmikemoore
platform
star
star
star
star
star

"BeFreed turned my guilty doomscrolling into something that feels productive and inspiring."

@Pitiful
platform
comments
96
likes
4.5K

"BeFreed turned my commute into learning time. 20-min podcasts are perfect for finishing books I never had time for."

@SofiaP
platform
star
star
star
star
star

"BeFreed replaced my podcast queue. Imagine Spotify for books — that’s it. 🙌"

@Jaded_Falcon
platform
comments
201
thumbsUp
16

"It is great for me to learn something from the book without reading it."

@OojasSalunke
platform
star
star
star
star
star

"The themed book list podcasts help me connect ideas across authors—like a guided audio journey."

@Leo, Law Student, UPenn
platform
comments
37
likes
483

"Makes me feel smarter every time before going to work"

@Cashflowbubu
platform
star
star
star
star
star

"Instead of endless scrolling, I just hit play on BeFreed. It saves me so much time."

@Moemenn
platform
star
star
star
star
star

"I never knew where to start with nonfiction—BeFreed’s book lists turned into podcasts gave me a clear path."

@Chloe, Solo founder, LA
platform
comments
12
likes
117

"Perfect balance between learning and entertainment. Finished ‘Thinking, Fast and Slow’ on my commute this week."

@Raaaaaachelw
platform
star
star
star
star
star

"Crazy how much I learned while walking the dog. BeFreed = small habits → big gains."

@Matt, YC alum
platform
comments
12
likes
108

"Reading used to feel like a chore. Now it’s just part of my lifestyle."

@Erin, Investment Banking Associate , NYC
platform
comments
254
likes
17

"Feels effortless compared to reading. I’ve finished 6 books this month already."

@djmikemoore
platform
star
star
star
star
star

"BeFreed turned my guilty doomscrolling into something that feels productive and inspiring."

@Pitiful
platform
comments
96
likes
4.5K

"BeFreed turned my commute into learning time. 20-min podcasts are perfect for finishing books I never had time for."

@SofiaP
platform
star
star
star
star
star

"BeFreed replaced my podcast queue. Imagine Spotify for books — that’s it. 🙌"

@Jaded_Falcon
platform
comments
201
thumbsUp
16

"It is great for me to learn something from the book without reading it."

@OojasSalunke
platform
star
star
star
star
star

"The themed book list podcasts help me connect ideas across authors—like a guided audio journey."

@Leo, Law Student, UPenn
platform
comments
37
likes
483

"Makes me feel smarter every time before going to work"

@Cashflowbubu
platform
star
star
star
star
star
今すぐ学習の旅を始めよう
この要約をダウンロード

How to Keep People from Pushing Your Buttonsの要約をPDFまたはEPUBで無料でダウンロード。印刷やオフラインでいつでもお読みいただけます。