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    The Sweet Science of Revenge: Why Payback Fantasies Feel So Good

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    21 set 2025
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    Why do revenge fantasies feel so satisfying? This episode connects neuroscience, evolutionary biology, and psychology to reveal how our brains reward vengeance thoughts. Drawing from Stanford's Andrew Huberman's research and Yale's James Kimmel Jr.'s addiction model, discover healthier ways to channel that primal energy.

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    Revenge fantasies are simulations that help us reclaim agency; the brain rehearses a plan where order is restored, delivering a hit of certainty and relief.

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    Why do we find violence and revenge fantasies so satisfying?

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    Behave: The Biology of Humans at Our Best and Worst
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    https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/32491659-behave
    The Joy of Pain: Schadenfreude and the Dark Side of Human Nature
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    https://www.goodreads.com/en/book/show/16285237
    Anger: The Misunderstood Emotion
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    https://www.goodreads.com/en/book/show/536149
    The Better Angels of Our Nature
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    The Righteous Mind: Why Good People Are Divided by Politics and Religion
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    https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/15797662-the-righteous-mind
    Culture of Honor: The Psychology of Violence in the South
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    The Dark Allure of Vengeance

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    Your Brain's Reward Circuit Lights Up

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    Evolution's Revenge Logic

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    The Control Restoration Project

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    The Catharsis Myth

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    Digital Outrage and Revenge Addiction

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    Turning Revenge Energy Into Something Better

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    The Revenge Paradox: Choose Your Future Feeling

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